Explanation

  • An informal adverb used primarily to express strong agreement or affirmation, meaning completely, absolutely, or definitely.
  • Can also be used as a general intensifier (It was totally awesome).

Origin

  • Derived from the standard adverb totally (completely).
  • Its specific use as a standalone agreement marker (Totally!) was popularized in American youth slang, particularly associated with Southern California Valley Girl and surfer subcultures in the 1980s.
  • It has since become mainstream informal English.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • For sure.
  • 100%. / One hundred percent.
  • Defo. (UK/Aus abbreviation for 'definitely')
  • Word up. (Affirmation)
  • Totes. (Abbreviation, often seen as cutesy, potentially dated or ironic)
  • Big time. (As in Do you agree? Big time.)

Vulgar/Emphatic:

  • Fuck yeah. / Hell yeah.
  • Abso-fucking-lutely. (Playful blend)
  • Totally fucking agree.

Milder/Standard:

  • Absolutely.
  • Completely.
  • Definitely.
  • Indeed.
  • Certainly.

Situational Appropriateness

  • Informal.
  • Very common in casual conversations, texting, and online.
  • Avoid in highly formal speech or writing where Absolutely, Completely, or Certainly would be more appropriate.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Unlikely to be misunderstood; clearly informal and affirmative.
  • Overuse might make someone sound like a stereotype (e.g., the 80s Valley Girl) if not used naturally within their speech pattern.

Examples

  • Are you coming to the party? / Totally! (Yes, definitely)
  • This heat is unbearable. / Totally. (I completely agree)
  • That movie was totally hilarious. (Intensifier: very hilarious)

Dialogue

Social Media Examples

  • Reply to a relatable tweet: This is so me 😂 -> Reply: Totally!
  • Comment agreeing with an opinion: Best pizza topping is pepperoni. -> Comment: Totally agree.
  • Instagram story poll response: Love this song? -> Totally

Response Patterns

  • Used as an emphatic yes or strong agreement, similar to Absolutely but more informal.

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After hearing Totally!:

  • Often reinforces the shared feeling or plan: Totally! It's going to be great.
  • The conversation might continue along the lines of the agreed-upon point.

Conversation Starter

  • No.
  • It's a response.

Intonation

  • As an agreement marker, often said with enthusiasm and stress on the first syllable: TO-tal-ly!
  • Typically has a falling intonation.
  • Can be said more calmly but still implies strong agreement.

Generation Differences

  • Strongly associated with Gen X and Millennials who grew up with its popularization, but still widely used by Gen Z.
  • Older generations might be less likely to use it as a standalone agreement marker, preferring more traditional alternatives.

Regional Variations

  • Very common in North American English (US/Canada).
  • Widely understood and used in other English-speaking countries, though perhaps less frequently than in North America.
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