Explanation

  • A firm refusal or statement that something is impossible or highly unlikely.
  • Gonna is a common informal contraction of going to.

Origin

  • A straightforward colloquial shortening of That is not going to happen.
  • Its widespread use reflects a direct, sometimes blunt, conversational style common in American English.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Ain't happening
  • No dice
  • Fat chance
  • Forget about it
  • NFW (Acronym for No F***ing Way, used in text/online)

Vulgar/Emphatic:

  • No fucking way
  • Like hell it is/will
  • Fuck that

Milder/Formal:

  • That's not possible
  • I'm afraid that won't work
  • That's unlikely to occur
  • Unfortunately, no.

Situational Appropriateness

  • Informal to semi-formal, depending on tone.
  • Can sound blunt or dismissive in formal settings. Best avoided with superiors unless the relationship is very casual.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Generally clear in meaning.
  • The primary risk is the bluntness, which might be misconstrued as rude if the context or relationship doesn't support it.

Examples

  • You want me to lend you my new car? Not gonna happen.
  • He thinks he can finish the entire project by tomorrow? Not gonna happen.

Dialogue

Person A: Can I borrow $100 until Friday?

Person B: Sorry, man. Not gonna happen. I'm totally broke myself.

Person A: Seriously? Not even $20?

Person B: Nope. Wish I could help.

Social Media Examples

  • Tweet: My boss wants me to come in on Saturday? LOL not gonna happen. #weekendvibes #boundaries
  • Comment Thread: User A: Prediction Team X will win the championship easily. User B: Not gonna happen, Team Y's defense is too strong this year.
  • Instagram Story Poll: Should I get bangs? Response Option: Cute! / Not gonna happen

Response Patterns

  • Often met with disappointment, argument, or acceptance.
  • Aw, come on!
  • Why not?
  • Okay, fine.
  • Worth a shot.

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

  • The person hearing it might ask Why not? or try to negotiate or persuade.
  • The speaker might elaborate on *why* it won't happen (I need my car this weekend, or The deadline is impossible.).

Conversation Starter

  • No. Usually a response to a request or suggestion.

Intonation

  • Often said with a firm, falling intonation.
  • Stress typically falls on Not and hap-pen: NOT gonna HAPpen.
  • Can be slightly singsong or drawn out for sarcastic effect.

Generation Differences

  • Widely used across many generations.
  • The use of gonna makes it feel particularly common among younger people (Teens to 40s).

Regional Variations

  • Very common in American English.
  • Other regions might prefer Not happening, No chance, or That's not on.
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