Explanation

  • A direct question asking for clarification when something someone said is unclear, ambiguous, or surprising.

Origin

  • A straightforward interrogative phrase using the verb to mean (to signify or intend).
  • Fundamental question for resolving communication breakdowns.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Say what now? (Expresses surprise/disbelief and asks for clarification)
  • Huh? (Very informal, can be considered impolite)
  • What you talkin' 'bout, Willis? (Older pop culture reference, humorous confusion)
  • I'm lost. / You lost me.

More Formal/Polite:

  • Could you elaborate on that point?
  • I'm not sure I fully grasp your meaning.
  • Perhaps I misunderstood, could you clarify?

Emphatic/Aggressive:

  • What the hell do you mean?
  • What are you even talking about? (See 0234)

Situational Appropriateness

  • Appropriate in most contexts, from casual to formal, when genuine clarification is needed.
  • Tone is crucial; it can sound confrontational if said aggressively.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • The directness can sometimes be perceived as challenging or aggressive, especially if the tone is sharp. Prefacing with Sorry, or using a softer tone can help.
  • Non-native speakers should be aware of the potential for confrontation depending on delivery.

Examples

  • Person A: We need to pivot. Person B: What do you mean, pivot?
  • He said he's 'taking a break.' What do you mean by that?
  • You think it's my fault? What do you mean?

Dialogue

Alex: This whole project is going sideways.

Ben: What do you mean, 'sideways'?

Alex: I mean, we're missing deadlines, the budget's blown, and the client isn't happy. It's a mess.

Ben: Oh, okay. I didn't realize it was that bad.

Social Media Examples

  • User A tweets: Big tech is the new oil. User B replies: What do you mean by that?
  • Comment on post: You said the event was 'interesting'. What do you mean? Good interesting or bad interesting?

Response Patterns

  • The person asked will usually try to rephrase or elaborate on their original statement.
  • I mean... followed by clarification.
  • What I'm saying is...
  • To clarify,...
  • Let me put it another way...
  • Sometimes defensiveness: It means exactly what I said!

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After asking What do you mean?:

  • The asker listens attentively to the explanation.

After receiving clarification:

  • The asker might say Oh, I see, Okay, that makes sense now, or ask further clarifying questions if still confused (So, you're saying...?).
  • If the clarification reveals something disagreeable, a debate might follow.

Conversation Starter

  • No.
  • It's a response seeking clarification within a conversation.

Intonation

  • Typically spoken with a questioning intonation, rising at the end.
  • Stress often falls on mean or you. What do YOU mean? or What do you MEAN?
  • Can convey genuine confusion, skepticism, or even challenge, depending on the tone.

Generation Differences

  • Universal across generations.

Regional Variations

  • Used everywhere in the English-speaking world.
If I could just say something..