- A direct question asking for clarification when something someone said is unclear, ambiguous, or surprising.
Explanation
Origin
- A straightforward interrogative phrase using the verb to mean (to signify or intend).
- Fundamental question for resolving communication breakdowns.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- Say what now? (Expresses surprise/disbelief and asks for clarification)
- Huh? (Very informal, can be considered impolite)
- What you talkin' 'bout, Willis? (Older pop culture reference, humorous confusion)
- I'm lost. / You lost me.
More Formal/Polite:
- Could you elaborate on that point?
- I'm not sure I fully grasp your meaning.
- Perhaps I misunderstood, could you clarify?
Emphatic/Aggressive:
- What the hell do you mean?
- What are you even talking about? (See 0234)
Situational Appropriateness
- Appropriate in most contexts, from casual to formal, when genuine clarification is needed.
- Tone is crucial; it can sound confrontational if said aggressively.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- The directness can sometimes be perceived as challenging or aggressive, especially if the tone is sharp. Prefacing with Sorry, or using a softer tone can help.
- Non-native speakers should be aware of the potential for confrontation depending on delivery.
Examples
- Person A: We need to pivot. Person B: What do you mean, pivot?
- He said he's 'taking a break.' What do you mean by that?
- You think it's my fault? What do you mean?
Dialogue
Alex: This whole project is going sideways.
Ben: What do you mean, 'sideways'?
Alex: I mean, we're missing deadlines, the budget's blown, and the client isn't happy. It's a mess.
Ben: Oh, okay. I didn't realize it was that bad.
Social Media Examples
- User A tweets: Big tech is the new oil. User B replies: What do you mean by that?
- Comment on post: You said the event was 'interesting'. What do you mean? Good interesting or bad interesting?
Response Patterns
- The person asked will usually try to rephrase or elaborate on their original statement.
- I mean... followed by clarification.
- What I'm saying is...
- To clarify,...
- Let me put it another way...
- Sometimes defensiveness: It means exactly what I said!
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
After asking What do you mean?:
- The asker listens attentively to the explanation.
After receiving clarification:
- The asker might say Oh, I see, Okay, that makes sense now, or ask further clarifying questions if still confused (So, you're saying...?).
- If the clarification reveals something disagreeable, a debate might follow.
Conversation Starter
- No.
- It's a response seeking clarification within a conversation.
Intonation
- Typically spoken with a questioning intonation, rising at the end.
- Stress often falls on mean or you. What do YOU mean? or What do you MEAN?
- Can convey genuine confusion, skepticism, or even challenge, depending on the tone.
Generation Differences
- Universal across generations.
Regional Variations
- Used everywhere in the English-speaking world.