- A phrase used to introduce an opinion or viewpoint that is explicitly based on the speaker's personal feelings, intuition, or subjective experience, rather than objective facts or logic alone.
Explanation
Origin
- Combines the adverb Personally (relating to oneself) with the verb feel (to experience an emotion or sensation, or to hold a belief or opinion, often intuitively).
- Emphasizes the subjective and possibly emotional basis of the statement.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- My gut says...
- I dunno, I just get a vibe that...
- If you ask me... (Can sometimes convey a strong feeling/opinion, see 0238)
More Focused on Intuition:
- Intuitively, I believe...
- I sense that...
More Formal (Expressing personal stance):
- From my personal standpoint...
- As far as I'm concerned... (Can also be informal/assertive)
Situational Appropriateness
- Appropriate in many situations, especially when discussing subjective preferences, ethical considerations, or decisions involving intuition or emotional impact.
- May be less appropriate in highly analytical or data-driven discussions where objective evidence is paramount, unless used to express reservations or human factors.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- Clear in its meaning. Explicitly flags the statement as based on personal feeling or intuition.
Examples
- Personally, I feel this decision is rushed.
- Logically it makes sense, but personally, I feel uneasy about it.
- Personally, I feel that blue would look better than green.
Dialogue
Friend 1: Should we invest in that new tech startup? The numbers look promising.
Friend 2: Personally, I feel it's too risky right now. Something about the market feels off to me.
Friend 1: Hmm, okay. I get the numbers, but I value your gut feeling too. Let's hold off for a bit then.
Social Media Examples
- Response to a poll: Voted Option C. Personally, I feel it's the most ethical choice.
- Comment on a review: Personally, I feel the movie was emotionally powerful, even if the plot had holes.
Response Patterns
- Acknowledgment of feeling: Okay, I understand why you might feel that way. / Thanks for sharing how you feel.
- Seeking reasoning (if not purely emotional): What makes you feel that way? / Is there a specific reason you feel uneasy?
- Agreement/Shared feeling: I feel the same way. / I get that feeling too.
- Disagreement (often gentle): I understand you feel that way, but I see the logic differently.
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
After hearing Personally, I feel...:
- Listeners often recognize the subjective or intuitive nature of the comment and might respond with empathy or curiosity about the underlying reasons.
After stating Personally, I feel...:
- The speaker has shared their subjective take, which might be harder to argue against logically but adds an important emotional or intuitive dimension to the discussion.
Conversation Starter
- Yes.
- Can initiate a conversation by sharing a personal feeling about a topic. Example: Personally, I feel this city needs more green spaces.
Intonation
- Often spoken with a slightly softer or more considered tone than I think or In my opinion.
- A slight pause after Personally is common. PERSONALLY, (pause) I FEEL we should reconsider.
- Stress can be on Personally or feel.
Generation Differences
- Widely used. The emphasis on personal feelings might align well with contemporary communication styles in some circles.
Regional Variations
- Common across all English-speaking regions.