Explanation

  • Similar to To be honest..., it signals a direct, open, and perhaps blunt statement of opinion or fact.
  • Often implies that the speaker is setting aside politeness or diplomacy for the sake of clarity or emphasis.

Origin

  • Comes from the word frank, meaning open, honest, and direct in speech or writing.
  • Used as an adverb to introduce a statement delivered with candor. Dates back centuries.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Not gonna lie / NGL
  • Keeping it real / Keeping it 100
  • Real talk

Vulgar/Emphatic:

  • To be brutally honest...
  • No bullshit... / No BS
  • Let's cut the crap...

Milder/More Common:

  • To be honest... / Honestly...

More Formal:

  • Candidly...
  • In all candor...

Situational Appropriateness

  • Can be used in both informal and formal contexts, but its directness can be perceived as blunt or even rude depending on the situation, tone, and content.
  • More common in situations where directness is valued or necessary (e.g., business discussions, serious feedback).

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Can sometimes sound unnecessarily harsh or confrontational if not delivered with care.
  • Its slightly formal feel might seem out of place in very casual peer-to-peer conversation among younger people.

Examples

  • Frankly, I think that's a terrible idea.
  • She told him frankly what she thought of his behavior.
  • Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn. (Famous line from Gone with the Wind)

Dialogue

Manager: What's your assessment of the project's progress?

Employee: Frankly, we're behind schedule. Several key tasks haven't been completed.

Manager: Okay. Frankly, that's concerning. What's the plan to get back on track?

Social Media Examples

  • Forum Post: Frankly, the user interface on this new software is confusing and unintuitive.
  • Tweet: Frankly, I'm tired of the political bickering. Can we focus on solutions? #politics
  • Blog Comment: Your analysis is interesting, but frankly, I think you've overlooked some key data points.

Response Patterns

  • Similar to To be honest...: Acknowledgement (Okay.), surprise/disagreement (Really? Why?), defense (Well, I disagree.), curiosity (Go on...).

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After hearing Frankly... [opinion/statement]:

  • The listener might ask for justification: What makes you say that?, Can you elaborate?
  • They might express agreement or disagreement.
  • They might become defensive if the comment was critical.

Conversation Starter

  • No. Usually used mid-conversation to introduce a frank opinion.

Intonation

  • Stress usually falls on the first syllable: FRANK-ly.
  • Often followed by a brief pause.
  • The tone can sometimes be slightly sharp or emphatic, reflecting the directness.

Generation Differences

  • Used across generations, but perhaps perceived as slightly more formal or older-fashioned than Honestly or Not gonna lie by some younger speakers.

Regional Variations

  • Standard and understood across all major English-speaking regions.
To be honest.