Explanation

  • To publicly (or sometimes directly but confrontationally) criticize, challenge, or accuse someone regarding their words, actions, or behavior.
  • Often implies the behavior is perceived as wrong, unfair, hypocritical, dishonest, or offensive.

Origin

  • The phrase suggests calling attention to someone's behavior and bringing it out into the open for scrutiny or confrontation.
  • While existing earlier, its usage surged with the rise of social media and call-out culture, where public criticism online became prevalent. Mid-20th century origins, amplified recently.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Put someone on blast. (Publicly expose or criticize, often harshly and online)
  • Check someone. (Confront, correct, challenge authority/behavior AAVE influence)
  • Tell someone off. (Scold, less formal confrontation)
  • Have a go at someone. (UK/Aus criticize or attack verbally)
  • Drag someone. (Online slang criticize harshly and publicly)

Vulgar/Emphatic:

  • Rip someone a new asshole. / Tear someone a new one. (Scold extremely severely)
  • Tear into someone. / Lay into someone. (Attack verbally with great force)

Milder/More Formal:

  • Raise an objection to...
  • Voice criticism of...
  • Address the issue directly with...
  • Challenge their assertions/conduct.
  • Formally critique...
  • Hold someone to account.

Situational Appropriateness

  • The act itself can occur anywhere, but describing it as calling out is generally informal to semi-formal.
  • Publicly calling someone out is inherently confrontational. Its appropriateness depends heavily on the context, relationship, severity of the issue, and cultural norms.
  • Can be necessary for accountability but risks escalating conflict, damaging relationships, or appearing aggressive if done poorly or unfairly.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Learners should understand this usually implies a direct, often public, and confrontational form of criticism aimed at perceived wrongdoing, not just a simple disagreement.

Examples

  • During the Q&A, an audience member called the speaker out on his inaccurate statistics.
  • She decided to call out her colleague for constantly taking credit for her ideas.
  • Activists are calling out the company for its poor environmental practices.

Dialogue

Leo: Did you see Sarah's post calling out that influencer for promoting a scam product?

Mia: Yeah, I saw it! It was pretty brutal, but someone needed to say it. He's been misleading people.

Leo: Totally. Good on her for calling him out. Wonder if he'll respond.

Social Media Examples

  • Tweet: Time to call out brands that engage in performative activism but don't actually support the cause. #DoBetter #Accountability
  • Thread: I need to call out the dangerous misinformation being spread in this article. Here's a fact-check thread: 1/...
  • Comment: @User123 I have to call you out on that statement, it's based on stereotypes and harmful.

Response Patterns

  • From the person called out: Defensiveness (That's not true!), anger (How dare you!), denial (I never did/said that!), justification (You don't understand the context!), evasion, or sometimes acknowledgment/apology (You're right, I misspoke.).
  • From observers: Agreement (Good for them!), shock (Wow, that was bold!), taking sides, discussing the validity of the criticism.

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

  • An argument or debate ensues between the caller-out and the person called out.
  • Demands for evidence, apology, retraction, or change in behavior.
  • Others joining the discussion, supporting one side or the other.
  • Potential consequences for the person called out (social, professional).

Conversation Starter

  • No. Describes an action of confrontation or criticism. You might start a conversation *about* someone being called out.

Intonation

  • Can range from assertive and firm (I felt I had to CALL him OUT.) to angry or triumphant (She really CALLED him OUT!).
  • Stress is clearly on CALL and OUT.

Generation Differences

  • Extremely common term, especially among Millennials and Gen Z, heavily associated with online discourse and social justice movements (call-out culture). Older generations understand it but might more often use confront, challenge, or criticize.

Regional Variations

  • Common across major English-speaking regions (US, UK, Can, Aus, NZ). The associated online call-out culture is a global phenomenon in English-speaking internet spaces.
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