- Used hyperbolically to mean very hungry.
- While starving literally means suffering or dying from lack of food, in everyday conversation, it simply means extremely hungry.
Explanation
Origin
- Comes from the Old English word steorfan, meaning to die.
- Over time, its meaning narrowed specifically to dying from lack of food or exposure to cold.
- Its hyperbolic use for very hungry is a common form of exaggeration for emphasis, likely centuries old.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- Could murder a [food item] (UK/Aus, e.g., Could murder a curry, means strongly desire)
- Feel like I haven't eaten in days (Hyperbole)
- My stomach is eating itself (Hyperbole)
Vulgar/Emphatic:
- Fucking starving
Milder:
- Very hungry
- Really hungry
- Famished
- Quite hungry
Situational Appropriateness
- Informal to semi-formal.
- Common in everyday conversation. Might be slightly too informal for a very formal dinner setting initially, but generally acceptable. Avoid using it trivially in situations where actual starvation is a serious issue.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- Non-native speakers should understand this is almost always hyperbole and doesn't mean the person is literally dying of hunger. Using it appropriately requires understanding this exaggeration.
Examples
- What time is dinner? I'm starving!
- Let's grab some food, I'm starving.
- The kids came home from school absolutely starving.
Dialogue
Nora: Are you ready to order?
Omar: Yes, definitely. I'm starving! I skipped lunch today.
Nora: Oh wow. Okay, let's get the waiter's attention. What are you thinking of having?
Omar: Everything looks good, but I think I need that burger.
Social Media Examples
- Tweet: Starving after that workout! Need protein ASAP. #gymlife #hungry #postworkoutmeal
- Instagram Story: (Picture of food) Finally! Was absolutely starving. 🤤 #foodie #lunchtime
- Facebook Post: Anyone else find they get starving around 3 PM every day? #snacktime #hungry
Response Patterns
- Me too! Let's eat.
- Okay, dinner will be ready soon.
- What do you want to eat?
- There are some snacks in the cupboard.
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
After someone says I'm starving:
- The logical follow-up is related to getting food: What should we eat?, Where should we go?, Let's order pizza., Dinner's almost ready.
After a response offering food or stating when it will be ready:
- The hungry person usually expresses relief or asks further questions about the food.
Conversation Starter
- Yes.
- Can be used to initiate finding a place to eat or deciding on food. Anyone else starving? Should we grab lunch?
Intonation
- Emphasis often falls on STAR-ving.
- Can be said with urgency, impatience, or simply as a statement of strong hunger.
Generation Differences
- Used universally by all age groups.
Regional Variations
- Extremely common in all English-speaking regions.