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[0309] Wet blanket

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Explanation

  • A person whose pessimistic attitude, negativity, or excessive caution discourages fun, enthusiasm, or enjoyment in others.
  • They effectively dampen the mood or excitement.

Origin

  • The metaphor comes from the literal act of using a wet blanket to smother a fire.
  • Applied figuratively, the person smothers the fire of fun, enthusiasm, or positive feelings within a group.
  • The term has been used since the early 20th century.

Synonyms & Related Expressions

  • Killjoy, party pooper, spoilsport, downer, negative Nancy, Debbie Downer (popularized by SNL), buzzkill (modern slang), pessimist, curmudgeon.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Killjoy (Very common synonym)
  • Party pooper (Common, sometimes seen as slightly childish but used for adults)
  • Spoilsport (Similar to party pooper, emphasizes ruining games/fun)
  • Downer / Debbie Downer (Someone who brings the mood down, often by being negative or pessimistic)
  • Buzzkill (Common modern slang for someone/something that ruins a good feeling or 'buzz')
  • Gloomy Gus / Grump (Focuses on general negativity or bad temper)
  • Stick-in-the-mud (Resistant to fun/new activities)

Vulgar/Emphatic:

  • Mood hoover (UK slang, vividly describes 'sucking' the good mood out)
  • Miserable sod/git/bastard (UK/Aus, general insult for unpleasant person)

Milder/More Formal:

  • Pessimist
  • Cynic
  • Skeptic (Focuses on doubt)
  • Discouraging / Negative
  • Detractor
  • Naysayer (Someone who habitually opposes or denies things)

Situational Appropriateness

  • Informal. It's a critical description of someone's attitude and its effect on others.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • The metaphorical meaning (dampening fun) is usually clear from context and distinct from the literal object.

Examples

  • Everyone wanted to go dancing, but Tom, the wet blanket, kept talking about how tired he was.
  • Don't be such a wet blanket! It might rain, but we can still have a fun picnic.
  • We were all excited about the project idea until the wet blanket in finance listed all the potential problems.

Dialogue

Maria: This beach party is going to be awesome! Sunshine, music, volleyball...

Jake: Sounds great, but isn't Chloe coming? She'll probably complain about the sand and the heat.

Maria: Ugh, don't remind me. She can be such a wet blanket. Let's just try to keep her away from the main group.

Social Media Examples

  • Post: Planning a surprise party is hard when one friend is a total wet blanket and keeps guessing what's going on! #secrets
  • Comment: Ignore the haters! Don't let those wet blankets ruin your excitement for your new venture.
  • Tweet: Someone always has to be the wet blanket pointing out the risks... sometimes you just gotta go for it! #positivity

Response Patterns

  • Agreement: Yeah, they can really bring the mood down., Totally.
  • Shared annoyance: Why do they always have to be so negative?
  • Suggestions to counteract or ignore: Let's just ignore them and have fun anyway., Maybe we shouldn't invite them next time?

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After calling someone a wet blanket:

  • People might discuss the specific negative or discouraging things the person said or did.
  • Conversation might turn to how to avoid having the mood ruined by this person in the future.
  • Action: Trying to cheer things up, ignoring the negativity, or excluding the person from future fun plans.

Conversation Starter

  • No. Describes someone who hinders fun or enthusiasm.

Intonation

  • Usually spoken with disappointment, annoyance, or mild exasperation.
  • Stress typically falls on wet and blanket.
  • a WET BLANKET.

Generation Differences

  • Widely understood, though perhaps slightly more common among older generations (Gen X, Boomers).
  • Younger generations might more frequently use buzzkill or downer.

Regional Variations

  • Common in most English-speaking countries.
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