Explanation

  • It's too late for something; the opportunity has passed and is no longer available.

Origin

  • Based on the literal image of a ship leaving the dock.
  • Once the ship has departed (sailed), anyone who wasn't on board has missed their chance to travel on it.
  • The metaphor extends this idea of a missed departure to any lost opportunity. Dates back to the late 19th or early 20th century.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Missed the boat
  • Blew it / Blew your chance
  • Snooze you lose
  • Too slow, Joe / Slowpoke

Milder:

  • It's too late now.
  • That opportunity has passed.
  • We missed the deadline/window.

Situational Appropriateness

  • Informal to semi-formal.
  • It's a common and generally inoffensive way to state that something is no longer possible.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Fairly straightforward idiom, unlikely to be taken literally unless the context is genuinely about ships.

Examples

  • I thought about applying for that scholarship, but the deadline was last Friday. That ship has sailed.
  • You should have bought those concert tickets when they went on sale. That ship has sailed now, they're sold out.
  • He wanted to apologize, but she'd already moved on. That ship had sailed.

Dialogue

Alex: Do you think the company would still consider my proposal from last year?

Ben: They implemented a completely new strategy six months ago. Regarding that old proposal, I think that ship has sailed, mate.

Alex: Yeah, you're probably right. Oh well.

Social Media Examples

  • Tweet: Thinking about all the Bitcoin I *didn't* buy in 2015. Yeah... that ship has sailed. 😭 #crypto #regrets #investing
  • Comment: Someone asked if I still wanted to join their startup. LOL, they launched 2 years ago! That ship has sailed, my friend. 😂
  • Post: Reminder: Early bird tickets end tonight! Don't be the one saying 'that ship has sailed' tomorrow. 😉 #conference #discount #deadline

Response Patterns

  • Oh well.
  • Too bad.
  • Yeah, I figured.
  • Shame.
  • Maybe next time.
  • Water under the bridge. (If referring to letting go of the past)

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After hearing That ship has sailed:

  • Acknowledge the finality: Okay, understood.
  • Ask about alternatives: So, what's the plan B? / Is there another way?
  • Express regret (if appropriate): Ah, that's a pity.
  • Move the conversation on: Alright, let's think about something else then.

Conversation Starter

  • No. It's a concluding statement about a past opportunity, usually said in response to a question or suggestion.

Intonation

  • Often said with a tone of finality or slight resignation.
  • Stress usually falls on ship and sailed. That SHIP has SAILED.

Generation Differences

  • Widely understood and used across all generations.

Regional Variations

  • Common in all major English-speaking regions.
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