Explanation

  • To reveal a secret, often accidentally or carelessly.

Origin

  • Uncertain origin with several theories.
  • **Pig in a poke:** A common theory involves medieval markets where a scammer might try to sell a cat inside a bag (poke) pretending it was a valuable piglet. If the buyer opened the bag before paying (let the cat out of the bag), the fraud was revealed. This aligns well with revealing a hidden truth.
  • **Cat-o'-nine-tails:** Another theory links it to the whip used for punishment in the British Royal Navy, which was supposedly kept in a bag. Taking it out revealed that punishment was imminent. Less directly related to revealing a general secret.
  • The 'pig in a poke' theory is more widely cited for the current meaning. The expression has been used since the 18th century.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Spilled the beans
  • Blabbed / Ran their mouth
  • Blew it (referring to keeping the secret)
  • Let it slip
  • Gave it away

Vulgar/Emphatic:

  • Fucked up and told someone
  • Shot their mouth off

Milder/Standard:

  • Revealed the secret
  • Disclosed the information
  • Made it known

Situational Appropriateness

  • Mostly informal to semi-formal.
  • It's a common, well-understood idiom, but might sound slightly quaint or clichéd in very formal writing.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Completely idiomatic. The literal image of a cat escaping a bag is irrelevant to the meaning. Emphasize that it means 'reveal a secret'.

Examples

  • We were planning a surprise party for Sarah, but her brother let the cat out of the bag.
  • Don't mention the promotion to anyone yet – I don't want to let the cat out of the bag before it's official.
  • Oops, I think I just let the cat out of the bag about their engagement!

Dialogue

Alice: I bought tickets for us to see that band you love next month! Surprise!

Ben: Oh wow! That's amazing! Actually, Chloe mentioned you were planning something...

Alice: Oh, did she? Looks like she let the cat out of the bag a bit early! But I'm glad you're excited!

Social Media Examples

  • Tweet: My friend accidentally let the cat out of the bag about the surprise party... oh well, guess I can stop pretending now! 😂 #surprisefail #secrets
  • Facebook Post: Looks like the movie studio let the cat out of the bag with that last trailer – revealed way too much! #spoilers #movietrailer
  • Reddit Comment: Did the developer just let the cat out of the bag about the release date in that interview?

Response Patterns

  • Oh no! Who told?
  • Really? How did that happen?
  • So, it's not a secret anymore?
  • Well, the cat's out of the bag now! (acknowledging the reveal)
  • Expressions of surprise, disappointment, or resignation.

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After the cat is out of the bag:

  • Who let the cat out of the bag?
  • How did they find out?
  • What was the person's reaction to the secret being revealed?
  • Action: Dealing with the consequences (e.g., telling the person directly now, changing plans).
  • Action: Mildly scolding the person who revealed the secret.

Conversation Starter

  • No.
  • Refers to the action of revealing a secret, usually commenting on it after it happened or warning against it.

Intonation

  • Stress often on CAT and BAG. Let the CAT out of the BAG.
  • Can be said with annoyance (if the secret was important), amusement (if it wasn't serious), or as a caution.

Generation Differences

  • Widely understood by all generations, though perhaps used slightly more frequently by older generations (Gen X and Boomers), but still common among Millennials and Gen Z.

Regional Variations

  • Common in all major English-speaking regions (US, UK, Canada, Australia, etc.).
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