- Happens very rarely; extremely infrequently.
Explanation
Origin
- A blue moon is the second full moon in one calendar month (or sometimes the third full moon in a season with four). This happens only about every 2-3 years.
- The phrase emerged in the 19th century, initially meaning 'absurd' or 'never', later shifting to 'very rarely'.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- Hardly ever.
- Like, never. (Hyperbole for very rarely)
- Almost never.
Milder/Standard:
- Very rarely.
- Infrequently.
- Seldom. (Slightly more formal/literary)
More Emphatic:
- Practically never.
Situational Appropriateness
- Appropriate for most informal and semi-formal conversations.
- It's a common, slightly colorful idiom.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- Non-native speakers might be confused by the literal meaning. Explain it's an idiom meaning very rarely.
Examples
- We only go out for a fancy dinner once in a blue moon.
- He actually cleans his room, but only once in a blue moon.
Dialogue
Person A: Do you ever see fireworks around here, besides New Year's?
Person B: Almost never. Maybe once in a blue moon if there's a huge town festival, but that's about it.
Person A: Shame. I love fireworks.
Social Media Examples
- Facebook Post: Had an amazing reunion with my college roommates this weekend! We only manage to all get together once in a blue moon, so it was extra special. ❤️ #friendsforlife #reunion
- Tweet: Actually cooked a proper meal from scratch tonight instead of ordering takeout. Happens once in a blue moon. Feeling very accomplished. 😂 #adulting #cooking
Response Patterns
- Oh, really? That seldom?
- Wow, that's not often at all.
- Yeah, it's quite rare.
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
- Acknowledge the rarity (Wow.).
- Might ask why it's so infrequent (Why so rarely?).
- Share a similar experience of rarity.
Conversation Starter
- No. Describes the frequency of an event already under discussion.
Intonation
- Emphasis typically on BLUE MOON. That only happens once in a BLUE MOON.
- Tone often emphasizes the rarity, sometimes with slight exaggeration.
Generation Differences
- Widely understood and used across generations.
Regional Variations
- Common in most English-speaking regions.