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[0461] Pull your weight

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Explanation

  • To contribute a fair and adequate amount of effort to a group task or project.
  • To fulfill one's responsibilities within a team or shared endeavor.
  • The opposite, not pulling your weight, implies being lazy, shirking responsibility, or burdening others who have to compensate for your lack of contribution.

Origin

  • Widely believed to originate from the sport of rowing, particularly crew racing.
  • In a rowing team, each rower must pull on their oar with roughly equal force (applying their weight or effort effectively) for the boat to move straight and fast.
  • If one rower doesn't pull their weight, the boat's performance suffers, and the other rowers have to work harder.
  • The metaphor extends to any collaborative effort requiring shared contribution.

Synonyms & Related Expressions

  • Do your fair share
  • Contribute your part / Do your bit
  • Carry your load
  • Step up / Step up to the plate (Take responsibility, increase effort)
  • Chip in (Contribute, often effort or money)
  • Hold up your end (Fulfill your part of an agreement or task)

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Don't be a slacker / freeloader / coaster (Someone who avoids work)
  • Get your act together (Start behaving responsibly/effectively)
  • Pitch in (Help out, contribute)

More Formal:

  • Fulfill your duties/responsibilities
  • Make an adequate/equitable contribution
  • Meet performance expectations
  • Ensure shared workload distribution

Vulgar/Emphatic (when criticizing lack of effort):

  • Stop being a lazy fuck
  • Get off your ass and contribute

Situational Appropriateness

  • Very common in contexts involving teamwork (workplace, sports, academic projects, shared chores).
  • Can be used neutrally to state expectations, but often used critically. Direct criticism using this phrase should be handled carefully in professional settings to avoid being overly confrontational, though it is sometimes necessary.
  • Appropriate in informal and semi-formal contexts.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Ensure non-native speakers understand it refers to contributing a fair share of *effort* or *work*, not literal physical weight. The core concept is about equitable contribution to a shared task.

Examples

  • In this group project, everyone needs to pull their weight for us to get a good grade.
  • He was let go from the team because he consistently failed to pull his weight.
  • If you agree to help organize the event, you need to be prepared to pull your weight.

Dialogue

Manager: Okay team, the deadline for the presentation is end of day Friday. It's crucial we all pull our weight to get this done on time and to a high standard.

Team Member 1: Agreed. I'll finalize the market analysis slides today.

Manager: (Later, privately to Team Member 2) Alex, I need to see more progress from you on the competitor research. Sarah had to cover some of your points yesterday. Please make sure you're pulling your weight on this.

Alex: Understood. Sorry, I got sidetracked. I'll focus on it now.

Social Media Examples

  • Tweet: Friendly reminder to everyone in a group chat for a class project: pull your weight! Don't make one person do everything. #groupwork #studentlife #teamwork
  • LinkedIn Post: High-performing teams thrive when every member consistently pulls their weight and feels accountable for shared success. #leadership #teambuilding #accountability
  • Reddit Comment (r/relationships): My roommate never cleans or buys groceries. I'm tired of carrying the household. How do I get them to pull their weight?

Response Patterns

(If criticized):

  • Defensiveness: What do you mean? I am pulling my weight!, I've done my part!, That's unfair!
  • Agreement/Apology: You're right, I haven't contributed enough lately. I'll step up., My apologies, I'll get on it.

(If hearing a general expectation):

  • Agreement: Absolutely, teamwork requires everyone's effort., Of course., Understood.

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After telling someone (or being told) to pull their weight:

  • Discussion of specific contributions: What tasks are still outstanding?, Where exactly do you need more help?, Can we clarify who is responsible for what?
  • Monitoring of future performance.
  • Potential conflict resolution or setting clearer expectations.

After stating the general need for everyone to pull their weight:

  • Often followed by task assignment, role clarification, or motivational statements about teamwork.

Conversation Starter

  • No. Used within discussions about teamwork, responsibility, performance, or fairness in group efforts.

Intonation

  • Can be spoken as a neutral statement of expectation or, more often, with a tone of criticism, warning, or exhortation.
  • Emphasis usually on pull and weight.
  • You need to start PULLING your WEIGHT around here.

Generation Differences

  • Widely understood and used across generations involved in any kind of collaborative work or activity.

Regional Variations

  • Common across all major English-speaking regions.
Put your nose to the grindstone
🎲 Break the back of something