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[0533] Sleep together

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Explanation

  • A common euphemism for having sexual intercourse. While literally meaning to share a bed, in most contexts, it strongly implies that sex occurred.

Origin

  • This euphemistic use is centuries old. Referring to sexual relations as sleeping with someone appears in literature and common speech for a very long time (e.g., biblical contexts knew).
  • It serves as a softer, less explicit alternative to have sex.

Synonyms & Related Expressions

  • Have sex
  • Make love (implies emotional connection)
  • Be intimate
  • Go all the way
  • Hook up (can include this, but is broader)
  • Get it on (informal)
  • Do it (colloquial)

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Get laid
  • Score
  • Bang (Vulgar)
  • Smash (Vulgar)
  • Shag (UK/Aus)
  • Root (Aus vulgar)
  • Get some
  • Knock boots (Older slang)
  • Do the deed

Vulgar/Emphatic:

  • Fuck

More Formal/Clinical:

  • Engage in sexual intercourse
  • Have coitus
  • Consummate the relationship (Formal, often legal/historical)

Milder/Euphemistic:

  • Be intimate
  • Spend the night together (Usually implies sex)
  • Get physical

Situational Appropriateness

  • Informal to semi-formal personal conversations. It's a widely accepted euphemism, less blunt than have sex.
  • Avoid in highly formal or professional settings unless discussing relevant social or personal history where necessary; more direct or clinical terms might be preferred.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Although overwhelmingly implying sex, context is key. A small chance exists for literal meaning (platonic bed-sharing). If someone stresses We *just* slept together, they might be trying to negate the sexual implication, but the phrase itself remains ambiguous. Shared a bed is clearer for platonic situations.

Examples

  • They started sleeping together after dating for a month.
  • Did you hear that Sam and Alex slept together?
  • We slept together once, but decided to just be friends.

Dialogue

Amy: How are things progressing with Ben?

Beth: Really well! We actually slept together last weekend.

Amy: Oh wow! Big step. How are you feeling about it?

Beth: Good! It felt right. I'm hopeful.

Social Media Examples

  • Reddit AITA: AITA for being upset my roommate slept together with my sibling?
  • Forum Discussion: Is it okay to sleep together on the first date?
  • TV Show Fan Tweet: Can't believe Character X and Character Y finally slept together! Took them long enough! #TVshow #spoiler

Response Patterns

  • Confirmation: Yes, they did. / Yeah, we have.
  • Denial: No, nothing happened like that. / No, we just crashed in the same bed, literally just slept. (Requires clarification if purely platonic).
  • Evasion: That's private. / We're close friends.

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

  • Often leads to questions about the relationship status (So, are they official now?) or circumstances (When did it happen?).
  • If clarifying the literal meaning: Oh, so you didn't actually... you know?

Conversation Starter

  • No. Usually arises within a discussion about relationships, personal updates, or gossip.

Intonation

  • Usually neutral, as a statement of fact or inquiry. Emphasis often on slept together. Have they SLEPT together?

Generation Differences

  • Widely understood and used across all generations.

Regional Variations

  • Common in all major English-speaking regions.
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