Explanation

  • To make a special effort to achieve something or to do more than is expected.

Origin

  • Biblical origin, from the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5:41).
  • If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles.
  • In Roman times, soldiers could legally compel civilians to carry their gear for one Roman mile (about 1.5 km).
  • Jesus's teaching advised followers to not only comply but to do double what was required, turning an imposition into an act of service or goodwill.
  • The phrase evolved to mean making any voluntary extra effort beyond the minimum requirement.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Put in the work. (Focuses on effort, less on exceeding expectations)
  • Hustle. (Implies hard, energetic work, often entrepreneurial)

Vulgar/Emphatic:

  • (Usually expressed by emphasizing the *result* or the *effort* rather than the act of exceeding expectations itself: They fuckin' killed it on that project.)

Milder:

  • Do a bit extra.
  • Be particularly helpful.
  • Show initiative.

Situational Appropriateness

  • Appropriate in most contexts, from informal praise to formal performance reviews and marketing slogans.
  • Universally positive connotation.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Very unlikely to be misunderstood. The metaphorical meaning is well-established.

Examples

  • She always goes the extra mile to help her students succeed.
  • The hotel staff really went the extra mile to make our anniversary special.
  • We go the extra mile for our customers. (Common in business slogans)

Dialogue

Customer: I just wanted to say thank you. Your support agent, Sarah, spent an hour on the phone with me fixing my issue. She really went the extra mile.

Manager: That's wonderful to hear! Sarah is one of our best. I'll be sure to pass along your compliments.

Customer: Please do. It made a big difference.

Social Media Examples

  • LinkedIn Post: Shoutout to my team who consistently go the extra mile! Your dedication doesn't go unnoticed. #teamwork #leadership
  • Review: The Etsy seller went the extra mile with beautiful packaging and a handwritten note! Highly recommend. #smallbusiness #customerservice
  • Tweet: Always appreciate teachers who go the extra mile for their students. Makes such a difference. #education #teachers

Response Patterns

When praised for going the extra mile:

  • Modesty: Oh, it was nothing., Happy to help!, Just doing my job.
  • Acknowledgment: Thank you, I appreciate that., We try our best.

When hearing about someone else going the extra mile:

  • Agreement/Admiration: That's really great of them., Wow, that's impressive service., They really care.

When being encouraged to go the extra mile:

  • Agreement: Okay, I'll see what more I can do.
  • Questioning: What exactly do you have in mind?

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After someone describes going the extra mile:

  • Expressing gratitude: Thank you so much, that was really helpful/kind.
  • Asking for details: Wow, what exactly did they do? (If hearing about a third party)

After praising someone:

  • Offering recognition or reward (in a formal context): We really appreciate your dedication.

After being encouraged:

  • Clarifying expectations: So, beyond the basic requirements, you'd like me to...?
  • Performing the extra action.

Conversation Starter

  • No.
  • Typically used to describe or praise an action that has already happened or to encourage future action.

Intonation

  • Usually said with appreciation, admiration, or emphasis.
  • Stress falls on go, extra, and mile. GO the EXtra MILE.

Generation Differences

  • Understood and used by all generations.

Regional Variations

  • Common in all major English-speaking regions.
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