- Chill (verb/adjective) / Chill out (verb phrase): To relax, calm down, or spend time relaxing.
- As an adjective, chill means relaxed, easygoing, or calm.
Explanation
Origin
- Derived from the literal meaning of cool down or lower temperature.
- Metaphorically applied to temperament and emotions – becoming less hot or agitated.
- Popularized in slang, likely influenced by AAVE and youth culture from the mid-to-late 20th century onwards. Chill out appeared around the 1970s/80s.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal (Relax/Calm down):
- Take a chill pill. (Playful/sarcastic way to say calm down)
- Veg out. (Relax passively, like watching TV)
- Cool your jets. (Calm down, esp. if angry or overly enthusiastic)
- Simmer. (Short for 'simmer down')
- Woosah. (Referencing a calming technique from the movie *Bad Boys II*, used humorously)
Vulgar/Emphatic (Calm down):
- Calm the fuck down.
- Stop fucking freaking out.
Milder (Relax/Easygoing):
- Unwind.
- De-stress.
- She has a calm demeanor.
- He's quite relaxed.
Situational Appropriateness
- Informal. Very common in casual settings.
- Telling someone to Chill out! can sound dismissive or condescending, similar to Calm down. Tone is crucial.
- Describing someone or something as chill is generally positive and informal.
- Avoid in formal contexts.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- Ensure context distinguishes between relax and calm down.
- Telling someone to chill out can escalate a situation if they feel their concerns are being dismissed.
Examples
- Verb: Let's just chill at home tonight. / Dude, you need to chill out!
- Adjective: He's a really chill guy. / It was a chill evening.
Dialogue
# Dialogue 1 (Relax):
Friend 1: Long week. I'm exhausted.
Friend 2: Yeah, me too. Want to just chill tonight? Order pizza?
Friend 1: Perfect. Let's just chill.
# Dialogue 2 (Calm down):
Person A: (Panicked) Where are my keys?! I can't find them anywhere! We're going to be late!
Person B: Hey, chill out. Take a breath. Where did you last see them? Let's look calmly.
Person A: Okay... okay. You're right. Let me think.
# Dialogue 3 (Adjective):
Chris: Is the new manager strict?
Dana: Nah, she's pretty chill, actually. Very easygoing.
Social Media Examples
- Status: Finally Friday! Time to chill. 😌 #weekend #relax
- Comment on an angry rant: Dude, you need to chill out.
- Bio: Just a chill person looking for chill vibes.
- Tweet: Looking for recommendations for a chill cafe to work from. #remotework
Response Patterns
To a suggestion (Let's chill):
- Agreement: Sounds good., Yeah, let's., Cool.
To a command (Chill out!):
- Compliance: Okay, okay, sorry., Alright, deep breaths.
- Defensiveness: I *am* chill!, Don't tell me to chill out!
When described as chill:
- Acknowledgment: Yeah, I try to be., Thanks.
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
After agreeing to chill:
- Suggesting relaxing activities: Want to watch a movie?, Put on some music?
- Getting comfortable (sitting down, relaxing posture).
After telling someone to chill out:
- Explaining why: ...you're overreacting., ...it's not a big deal.
- Offering reassurance: Everything's going to be okay.
After being told to chill out (and complying):
- Explaining the previous agitation: Sorry, I was just stressed about...
- Asking for clarification: What did I do?
Conversation Starter
- Suggestion (Want to chill later?): Yes.
- Command (Chill out!): No, used mid-situation.
- Description (He's chill): Can start a conversation about the person.
Intonation
- When suggesting relaxation (Let's chill): Relaxed, casual tone. Stress on chill.
- When telling someone to calm down (Chill out!): Can be sharp, commanding, or pleading, depending on urgency. Stress on Chill OUT.
- As an adjective (He's chill): Matter-of-fact or approving tone. Stress on chill.
Generation Differences
- Extremely common among Millennials and Gen Z.
- Understood by older generations but used less frequently by them. They might prefer relax or calm down.
- The adjective chill for easygoing is particularly prevalent in younger demographics.
Regional Variations
- Very common in American English. Also widely used in Canada, Australia, UK, etc., especially among younger people.