Explanation

  • A phrase used to describe the vibe, essence, aura, or impression that something or someone evokes.
  • You complete the phrase with the specific quality being evoked (e.g., It's giving luxury, It's giving main character energy, It's giving desperation).
  • It's like saying It has the vibe of... or It reminds me of...

Origin

  • Originates in Black and Latino LGBTQ+ ballroom culture, similar to throwing shade.
  • In ballroom, judges might comment on a performer's presentation using phrases like It's giving face (serving great facial expressions) or It's giving realness (authentically portraying a category).
  • Popularized more broadly through social media platforms like TikTok and Twitter, often used humorously or critically, around the late 2010s and early 2020s.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • That's got [X] vibes. (e.g., That's got spooky vibes.)
  • It reads as... (Interpreting something's appearance/meaning)

Milder/Standard:

  • It seems... (e.g., It seems luxurious.)
  • It has a certain [quality]...
  • It gives the impression of...

Situational Appropriateness

  • Very informal and trendy.
  • Used mainly in casual conversation, social media, fashion/pop culture commentary.
  • Avoid in formal settings, academic writing, or professional communication, as it's slangy and potentially unclear to those unfamiliar with it.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • The literal meaning of giving (to provide or bestow) is completely different. People unfamiliar with the slang will likely be confused.
  • The structure is very distinctive slang and might be perceived as grammatically incorrect or nonsensical outside of its specific cultural context.

Examples

  • Her new outfit is amazing. It's giving high fashion.
  • The way he decorated his tiny apartment? It's giving resourcefulness.
  • (Critically) His constant excuses are giving unprofessional.
  • (Humorously) This messy room is giving 'I'll clean it tomorrow'.

Dialogue

Alex: Check out the trailer for that new sci-fi movie.

Ben: Ooh, okay... watched it.

Alex: What do you think?

Ben: Honestly? It's giving low-budget B-movie. The special effects looked rough.

Alex: Haha, harsh! I thought it was giving retro-cool.

Social Media Examples

  • Tweet: My WFH setup with fairy lights and plants. It's giving cozy productivity. ✨🌿 #wfh #vibes
  • TikTok Video: Shows someone trying on a dramatic outfit. Text: It's giving villain origin story 😈
  • Instagram Comment: This photo shoot is stunning! It's giving editorial magazine cover! 🔥

Response Patterns

  • Agreement: Right? / Totally. / I see it. / Exactly what I thought.
  • Disagreement: Really? I don't get that vibe. / Hmm, I see it differently.
  • Asking for clarification: What do you mean, giving [something]? / Why do you say that?
  • Adding to the description: Yes, and also giving a little bit of...

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After someone says It's giving...:

  • Elaborate on the observation: Especially the way the fabric drapes...
  • Discuss the accuracy of the vibe: Is that what they were going for?
  • Compare it to other things: It reminds me of...

After hearing It's giving...:

  • Look more closely at the subject being described.
  • Offer your own assessment/vibe check.

Conversation Starter

  • Yes, can be used to offer an observation about something or someone, starting a conversation about that perception. (This cafe design is interesting. It's giving cozy.)

Intonation

  • Typically, the stress is on giving and the descriptive word(s) that follow. It's GIVING high FASHION.
  • Often delivered with a knowing, observant, or slightly judgmental tone, depending on the context (appreciative, critical, humorous).

Generation Differences

  • Heavily used by Gen Z and younger Millennials, especially those active on platforms like TikTok.
  • Less likely to be used or understood by older generations.

Regional Variations

  • Originated in US Black/Queer communities but has spread globally via the internet, particularly among youth.
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