0629 Powder one's nose - English Idioms

Explanation

A euphemism, traditionally used by women, meaning to go to the restroom (lavatory or toilet).
It politely masks the real reason for temporarily leaving a social situation. The implication is going to freshen up makeup, but it's understood to mean using the toilet.

Origin

Originated in the early 20th century when public discussion of bodily functions was more taboo, especially for women.
Applying face powder was a common, discreet reason for a woman to visit the ladies' room. The phrase became a socially acceptable code.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

(Generic restroom terms apply, see 0628)
Visit the little girls' room (Slightly cutesy/dated euphemism).

Vulgar/Emphatic:

(Generic vulgar terms apply, see 0628).

Milder/Standard:

Excuse me, I need to use the restroom. (Standard US)
Excuse me, I need the ladies' room.
Excuse me, I need the toilet/loo. (Standard UK)
I need to freshen up. (General, could mean makeup or restroom).

Situational Appropriateness

Traditionally feminine euphemism. Can sound dated or overly coy depending on the context and speaker.
Generally polite and acceptable in social situations where directness about bodily functions is avoided.
Less common now than it once was, as society is generally more direct. Some might find it overly quaint or even slightly patronizing if used self-consciously. Men typically do not use this phrase for themselves.

Misunderstanding Warnings

Someone unfamiliar with the idiom might take it literally, especially if the context isn't clear (though usually it is).
Its gendered nature is key; a man saying this would sound very strange or be making a specific kind of joke.

Examples

Excuse me, gentlemen, I need to powder my nose.
I'll be right back, just going to powder my nose.
Let's powder our noses before the next course arrives. (One woman suggesting to another they both go to the restroom).

Dialogue

At a dinner party:

Woman A: If you'll excuse me for a moment, I'm just going to powder my nose.

Host: Of course, dear. The ladies' is just up the stairs, first door on the left.

Two women colleagues at a conference:

Woman B: This speaker is going on a bit. Fancy powdering our noses?

Woman C: Good idea, let's slip out.

Response Patterns

Acknowledgment (Certainly, Of course, Okay.).
Men in the group typically just nod or wait.
Other women might offer to accompany (Shall I come with you?).

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

The woman (or women) leaves to use the restroom.
The remaining people wait or continue their conversation.

Conversation Starter

No. Statement of intention to use the restroom.

Intonation

Spoken politely, discreetly, and often with a slight smile.
Normal, calm intonation. POWder my NOSE.

Generation Differences

Much more common among older generations (Silent Generation, Baby Boomers).
Younger generations understand it but are far less likely to use it, preferring more direct terms like use the restroom/bathroom/toilet.

Regional Variations

Understood in most English-speaking regions, but perhaps more strongly associated with British English or older American etiquette.

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[0629] Powder one's nose