- A euphemism meaning to have sexual intercourse.
- It implies sharing a bed with the intention or result of sexual activity, not merely sharing sleeping quarters platonically.
Explanation
Origin
- Stems from the literal act of sharing a bed, which historically and socially is strongly associated with sexual intimacy between non-related adults.
- Used as a less direct way to refer to sex.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- Hooked up
- Got it on
- Did it
- Did the deed
- Got lucky
- Shagged (UK/Aus)
- Rooted (Aus)
Vulgar/Emphatic:
- Fucked
- Banged
- Screwed
- Got laid
Milder/More Formal:
- Became intimate
- Consummated the relationship (formal, often implies marriage)
- Had relations (somewhat clinical or formal)
Situational Appropriateness
- Informal to semi-formal depending on the relationship between speakers.
- Generally avoided in very formal or professional contexts.
- Can be considered gossipy.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- The most common misunderstanding is taking it literally, meaning just sharing a bed platonically (e.g., friends sharing a hotel room). Context is crucial.
Examples
- I heard Mark and Sarah slept together after the party.
- Are they dating now, or did they just sleep together once?
- He admitted they had slept together.
Dialogue
Anna: Did you hear about Mike and Chloe?
Ben: No, what happened?
Anna: Apparently, they slept together last weekend.
Ben: Seriously? I didn't even know they liked each other that way.
Social Media Examples
- Relationship advice thread: He wants to 'sleep together' on the third date, is that too soon? #datingadvice
- Anonymous confession forum: I slept together with my best friend's ex... feeling so guilty. #confession
- Fan fiction discussion: Do you think Character A and B will finally sleep together this season? #shipping
Response Patterns
- If asked as a question (Did they sleep together?): Yes, they did., No, I don't think so., I'm not sure., That's none of our business.
- If stated as information: Nodding, Oh really?, I thought so., Wow.
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
- Was it just a one-night stand?
- Are they a couple now?
- How did that happen?
- Sharing the information (gossiping).
Conversation Starter
- No. Typically used within a conversation, often when discussing relationships or gossip.
Intonation
- Usually spoken with a neutral, matter-of-fact tone.
- Emphasis might fall slightly on together depending on the context, especially if contrasting with platonic sharing.
Generation Differences
- Widely understood across generations, though younger generations might prefer more direct terms or slang like hook up.
Regional Variations
- Common in most major English-speaking regions (US, UK, Canada, Australia).