- Do it: A very common and versatile euphemism for having sex. The specific meaning relies heavily on context.
- Get it on: A slightly more slangy and energetic euphemism for having sex, often implying enthusiasm or initiation.
Explanation
Origin
- Do it: Uses the generic verb do as a substitute for the specific act, relying on context for meaning. Its usage for sex is very old.
- Get it on: Emerged in the mid-20th century, possibly related to getting something desirable and the on implying action or engagement. Associated with popular music and culture from the 60s/70s onwards (e.g., Marvin Gaye's Let's Get It On).
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- Hook up
- Fool around / Mess around
- Get down (dated slang)
- Make out (usually preliminary, but context can vary)
- Smash (modern slang)
- Bang (vulgar slang)
Vulgar/Emphatic:
- Fuck
- Screw
- Bone
- Shag (UK/Aus)
Milder/More Formal:
- Have intercourse
- Be intimate
- Make love
Situational Appropriateness
- Informal. Do it is very common but still informal. Get it on is distinctly informal and slangy.
- Avoid both in formal or professional settings. Use depends heavily on the relationship between speakers.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- Do it is highly context-dependent. Without context, it could refer to any action (Did you do the dishes? Yeah, I did it.). The sexual meaning is usually clear from tone or surrounding conversation.
- Get it on is less ambiguous but could theoretically be confused with starting something else (e.g., Let's get the project on!).
Examples
- Do it: Are they doing it? / Let's do it tonight. / They did it in the car.
- Get it on: They couldn't wait to get it on. / Wanna get it on? / The party was boring, so they left early to get it on.
Dialogue
Scenario 1 (Do it):
Friend 1: So, did you and Alex finally do it?
Friend 2: Yeah... we did. Last night.
Friend 1: And? How was it?
Scenario 2 (Get it on):
Partner 1: The kids are finally asleep.
Partner 2: Oh yeah? (Smiling suggestively) Wanna get it on?
Partner 1: Definitely.
Social Media Examples
- Humorous tweet: My brain telling me to sleep vs. my hormones telling me to find someone to 'do it' with. #singleprobz
- Music discussion: That Marvin Gaye track just makes you want to 'get it on'. #classic #soulmusic
- Anonymous question: Is it weird that my partner never wants to 'do it' spontaneously? #sexlife
Response Patterns
- If asked (Wanna do it? / Wanna get it on?): Yes!, No., Maybe later., Not here.
- If discussing others (Did they do it?): Yeah., No way., I think so.
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
- Initiating sexual activity (if consenting).
- Discussing the circumstances or details (if talking about others).
- Questions about contraception, location, timing.
Conversation Starter
- No. Used within a specific context, either as a proposition or when discussing sexual activity.
Intonation
- Do it: Can be neutral, questioning (Are they DOING it?), suggestive (Let's DO it...), or conspiratorial. Emphasis often on do.
- Get it on: Often more upbeat or suggestive. Emphasis frequently on on. Let's get it ON!
Generation Differences
- Do it is timeless and understood by all generations.
- Get it on might feel slightly dated to very young generations but is still widely recognized, partly due to music/media.
Regional Variations
- Both are common in North American English and generally understood elsewhere.