- An iconic, blunt, and dismissive statement expressing complete indifference and lack of concern for someone else's fate, feelings, or opinions. Frankly emphasizes the brutal honesty.
Explanation
Origin
- One of the most famous lines in movie history, delivered by Rhett Butler (Clark Gable) to Scarlett O'Hara (Vivien Leigh) in the final scene of the 1939 film Gone with the Wind.
- Scarlett desperately asks Rhett, who is leaving her, Where shall I go? What shall I do? He delivers this cold, final rejection.
- The use of damn was highly controversial at the time due to censorship (the Hays Code), adding to the line's impact and fame.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal (Indifference):
- I don't give a shit / crap / fuck / rat's ass. (Vulgar)
- Couldn't give a toss. (UK) / Couldn't give two hoots. (UK/Aus)
- Whatever. (Very dismissive)
- Not bothered. (UK) / Not fussed. (UK/Aus)
Milder:
- I'm afraid I'm not concerned with that.
- That doesn't really affect me.
Situational Appropriateness
- Generally informal due to damn and its inherent harshness.
- Quoting it directly can sound overly dramatic or theatrical.
- Considered rude and dismissive in most contexts. Avoid in professional or polite situations unless used for very specific, calculated effect (which is risky) or clearly as a humorous quote among people who will get it.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- The meaning is brutally clear. The main risk is underestimating its cultural weight and potential harshness, or using my dear outside the quote, which can sound condescending or archaic.
Examples
- (Quoted directly, often for dramatic or humorous effect) Person A: But what will happen to me? Person B: Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn.
- (Paraphrased, expressing strong indifference) You can complain all you want. Frankly, I don't give a damn.
- (Used lightly/jokingly for minor things) Should I wear the red shirt or the blue shirt? / Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn... they both look fine!
Dialogue
Employee: If you fire me, I don't know how I'll pay my rent! What am I supposed to do?
Uncaring Boss (coldly): Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn. Security will escort you out.
Employee: (Shocked silent)
Social Media Examples
- Reaction gif/meme of Rhett Butler saying the line, often used to express indifference to online drama.
- Tweet: People getting outraged over [trivial issue]. Me? Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn. 💅 #unbothered #sorrynotsorry
- Humorous post: My alarm clock ringing this morning. My brain: Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn. #sleepy #mondaymood
Response Patterns
- Shock/Hurt: Often met with stunned silence, tears, or anger.
- Defiance: Fine! Good riddance! / I never needed you anyway!
- Resignation: I see. / A sad nod.
- Laughter (if the humorous intent is clear).
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
- After hearing it: The listener typically feels rejected or dismissed. The conversation often ends abruptly. They might leave, argue back futilely, or be left speechless.
- After saying it: The speaker usually intends this as a final statement, often turning away or leaving, signifying the end of their concern or involvement.
Conversation Starter
- No. It's a conversation ender, expressing total disengagement.
Intonation
- Typically delivered coolly, calmly, and dismissively, often mimicking Gable's delivery.
- Emphasis on Frankly and damn.
- FRANKLY, my dear, I don't give a DAMN.
- The my dear adds a layer of cold, ironic detachment.
Generation Differences
- Extremely famous quote, recognized by many generations due to the enduring classic status of Gone with the Wind. Older generations likely have stronger direct familiarity.
Regional Variations
- Globally recognized due to the film's fame.