- To reveal a secret or disclose confidential information, often prematurely or indiscreetly.
Explanation
Origin
- The exact origin is uncertain, but several theories exist.
- One popular theory involves an ancient Greek voting system using beans (e.g., white for yes, black for no) placed secretly into a jar. If someone knocked over the jar, spilling the beans, the secret vote would be revealed before the official count.
- Another theory relates to secret societies where initiation rituals or voting might have involved beans, and spilling them would expose something meant to be kept hidden.
- The idiom appeared in American English in the early 20th century.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- Dish the dirt / Dish (implies gossip)
- Give up the goods
- Spit it out (more forceful demand to speak)
- Fess up (confess)
- Sing like a canary (implies revealing everything, often under pressure)
Vulgar/Emphatic (When demanding information):
- Tell me the fucking secret!
- What the hell happened?
Milder/Standard:
- Reveal the information
- Disclose the details
- Share the secret
- Tell me what happened
Situational Appropriateness
- Informal.
- Appropriate among friends, family, or sometimes close colleagues in a casual context.
- Avoid in formal situations or when discussing sensitive information where discretion is genuinely required.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- Non-native speakers might imagine literally spilling beans (the food). The context of revealing secrets or hidden information is crucial for understanding.
Examples
- Okay, spill the beans! Who is she dating now?
- My little brother spilled the beans about the surprise birthday party.
- Don't spill the beans to Mom about the broken vase.
Dialogue
Sarah: I heard something interesting happened at the office party after I left.
Ben: Oh yeah? (Smiling)
Sarah: Don't be coy! Come on, spill the beans!
Ben: Alright, alright. Apparently, Dave from accounting challenged the CEO to a dance-off.
Sarah: No way! Who won?
Social Media Examples
- Tweet: Someone needs to spill the beans about the plot twist in the season finale! The suspense is killing me! #TVShow #SpoilersMaybe
- Instagram Story Poll: Should I spill the beans about my secret project? YES / NOT YET 😉
- Comment: He finally spilled the beans on why he moved across the country. Turns out he got his dream job!
Response Patterns
- Revealing the information: Okay, okay, here's what I heard...
- Refusing to reveal: Nope, my lips are sealed. / I can't tell you. / I promised I wouldn't say.
- Deflecting: Why do you ask? / What do you think happened?
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
- If the beans are spilled: Asking for more details (Really? Tell me more!). Expressing surprise or reacting to the news.
- If the person refuses: Playful persistence (Aw, come on!), respecting their silence, or trying to guess.
Conversation Starter
- Yes, in informal settings when you suspect someone has interesting news or gossip they aren't sharing. I feel like you know something... spill the beans!
Intonation
- Often used playfully or with urgent curiosity when requesting information.
- Can also be used in a neutral or warning tone when advising against revealing something.
- Stress typically on spill and beans.
- SPILL the BEANS! (request) or Don't SPILL the BEANS. (warning)
Generation Differences
- Common and understood across most generations.
Regional Variations
- Widely used and understood in most major English-speaking countries (US, UK, Canada, Australia, etc.).