- Maintain your position or decision firmly, especially when facing opposition or pressure.
- Refuse to yield or change your mind.
Explanation
Origin
- Stand your ground: Likely originates from military contexts where soldiers were ordered to hold their position against an enemy attack.
- It emphasizes staying put and resisting pressure. It has also become prominent in legal discussions around self-defense laws in some regions (like the US), meaning the right to use force without retreating first.
- Stick to your guns: Also likely military, possibly referring to artillery soldiers staying with their cannons (guns) even when under attack, showing determination and loyalty to their post.
- Dates back to at least the mid-19th century. Both idioms convey resolve and refusal to back down.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- Don't fold (Like in poker, don't give up under pressure)
- Hold your own (Successfully maintain your position against opposition)
- Stay strong
Vulgar/Emphatic:
- Don't take any shit (Don't accept mistreatment or pressure)
- Tell them to fuck off (Aggressively reject opposition context dependent)
Milder:
- Maintain your stance
- Remain resolute
- Stay the course
Situational Appropriateness
- Appropriate in informal and semi-formal contexts (personal discussions, team meetings).
- Can be used in professional settings to indicate resolve, though more formal phrasing like maintain our position might be preferred in some corporate cultures.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- The legal meaning of stand your ground in some US states (related to self-defense) is distinct from its general idiomatic meaning of maintaining a position in an argument or decision. Context usually makes the meaning clear.
Examples
- The committee tried to change her proposal, but she decided to stand her ground.
- My family disagreed with my career choice, but I stuck to my guns and became a musician.
- Even when they offered him more money, he stood his ground on his principles.
Dialogue
Anna: My colleagues want me to compromise on the project's quality standards to save time.
Ben: But you believe the quality is essential, right?
Anna: Absolutely. It reflects on our team's reputation.
Ben: Then you need to stick to your guns. Don't let them pressure you.
Anna: You're right. I'll stand my ground in the meeting. Thanks.
Social Media Examples
- Tweet: Facing a lot of criticism for my latest article, but I stand my ground on the research. #AcademicTwitter #Integrity
- Instagram Caption: They told me my art style was 'too weird'. I stuck to my guns. Now booking commissions! 😉 #artistlife #beyourself
- Forum Post: My family thinks I'm crazy for quitting my job to travel. Should I stick to my guns? #travel #lifechoices
Response Patterns
- Often met with encouragement: Good for you!, You have to!, Absolutely.
- Or caution/disagreement: Are you sure?, That might be risky., Consider the consequences.
- It's usually a statement of intent or description, not a question requiring a direct yes/no answer.
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
After someone states they will stand their ground/stick to their guns:
- Questions like: What makes you so sure?, What do you expect will happen?, Is there anything I can do to support you?
- The speaker usually proceeds with their determined course of action.
After receiving advice to stick to your guns:
- Responses like: Thanks, I needed to hear that., I will., or expressing doubts, I know, but it's difficult.
Conversation Starter
- No. Typically used within a discussion about conflict, decision-making, or facing pressure.
Intonation
- Emphasis typically falls on stand and ground, or stick and guns.
- The tone is usually firm, determined, and resolute.
- STAND your GROUND. / STICK to your GUNS.
Generation Differences
- Widely understood across generations. Stick to your guns might sound slightly more traditional than stand your ground to some younger people.
Regional Variations
- Both are common in major English-speaking regions (US, UK, Canada, Australia).