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[0873] When one door closes, another opens

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Explanation

  • Suggests that losing an opportunity or ending a phase often leads to new possibilities arising.
  • Encourages optimism and resilience after a disappointment or setback.

Origin

  • The sentiment is old, but the specific phrasing using doors as metaphors for opportunities is often linked to figures like Alexander Graham Bell, though its exact origin is debated.
  • It became a popular proverb expressing hope in the face of loss.

Synonyms & Related Expressions

  • Every cloud has a silver lining. (Focuses on finding good within the bad)
  • Blessing in disguise. (Suggests the initial 'bad' event was actually good)
  • There are other fish in the sea. (Specific to lost jobs or relationships)
  • Opportunity often comes disguised as misfortune.
  • Look for new possibilities.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • On to the next. (Can sound abrupt)
  • Something better will turn up.
  • Gotta pivot. (Business/startup slang for changing direction)

Milder/Standard:

  • This could lead to new opportunities.
  • Let's explore other options.
  • Don't give up hope; other possibilities exist.

Situational Appropriateness

  • Informal to semi-formal.
  • Appropriate for comforting friends, family, or colleagues after moderate disappointments (job loss, rejection, cancelled plans).
  • Use with care for major losses; ensure empathy is conveyed.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Similar to other optimistic phrases, it can sound dismissive of current pain if not delivered with genuine empathy. The 'new door' isn't always apparent or easy to find.

Examples

  • She was disappointed not to get the internship, but when one door closes, another opens – she found a different one she loves even more.
  • The project funding was cut, but remember, when one door closes, another opens. Let's see what else we can pursue.

Dialogue

Liam: I can't believe the bookstore is closing. I loved working there.

Sophia: I know, it's sad news. But they say when one door closes, another opens. Maybe this is your chance to pursue writing full-time?

Liam: Hmm, maybe you're right. It's scary, but perhaps it's time.

Social Media Examples

  • Post: My startup didn't get funded. Disappointed, but reminding myself: when one door closes, another opens. Back to the drawing board! #entrepreneur #resilience
  • Comment: So sorry to hear your travel plans fell through! When one door closes... hope something even better comes along!
  • Image macro: Picture of two doors, one closed, one slightly ajar with light coming through, text overlay: When one door closes, another opens.

Response Patterns

  • I hope you're right.
  • Let's hope so.
  • That's a positive way to look at it.
  • Thanks, I needed that.
  • Sometimes skepticism: If only it were that simple.

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

  • The speaker might suggest potential new doors: Maybe now you can...
  • The listener might express cautious optimism: I'll keep my eyes open for new opportunities.
  • Can spark brainstorming about alternative paths.

Conversation Starter

  • No. Used to console or encourage someone facing a loss or setback.

Intonation

  • Typically said with an encouraging, hopeful, or reassuring tone.
  • Stress often on ONE door CLOSES and ANOTHER opens.

Generation Differences

  • A classic proverb, widely understood and used across generations.

Regional Variations

  • Common in all major English-speaking regions.
Everything happens for a reason
🎲 C'est la vie