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[0905] Payback's a bitch

🎲 Karma will get you
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Explanation

  • An informal and forceful expression meaning that revenge or retribution for a past wrong is often unpleasant, harsh, or difficult for the person receiving it.
  • It implies that the negative consequences currently being experienced are deserved vengeance.

Origin

  • This phrase likely emerged in American English slang in the mid-to-late 20th century.
  • Using bitch as an intensifier for something unpleasant or difficult became common during this time.
  • Payback refers directly to retaliation or getting even. The phrase frames revenge not just as justice, but as something inherently nasty and harsh.

Synonyms & Related Expressions

  • Revenge is sweet. (Focuses on the positive feeling for the avenger)
  • What goes around comes around. (More general, less focused on active revenge)
  • Karma's a bitch. (Similar meaning, attributes it to cosmic justice rather than direct payback)
  • You get what you deserve.
  • Serves you/him/her right.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Got 'em back. (Simple statement of revenge)
  • Revenge time.
  • Sweet, sweet revenge.

Vulgar/Emphatic:

  • (This phrase is already quite strong and informal/vulgar due to bitch)

Milder:

  • They got their comeuppance. (Comeuppance = deserved punishment)
  • Justice was served. (More formal)
  • That seems fair.

Situational Appropriateness

  • Highly informal. The use of bitch makes it inappropriate for formal or professional settings.
  • Best used among friends or in casual conversation where strong, somewhat aggressive language is acceptable.
  • Can sound vengeful or gloating.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • The main issue is the crudeness. Learners should understand this is not polite language.
  • The meaning itself is fairly straightforward – revenge is unpleasant (for the target).

Examples

  • He spread lies about me, and now everyone knows he's a liar. Payback's a bitch, isn't it?
  • They thought they could bully us, but we won the contract. Payback's a bitch.
  • After how he treated her, losing his job seems like fair payback. It's a bitch.

Dialogue

Leo: Did you hear? After stealing all of Sarah's clients, Tom's own business just went bankrupt.

Mia: Wow. Serves him right. Payback's a bitch.

Leo: Seriously. He was ruthless. Guess it caught up with him.

Social Media Examples

  • Tweet reacting to news of a disliked celebrity facing consequences: Payback's a bitch. #karma
  • Comment on a story about corporate fraud being exposed: Good. They ripped off so many people. Payback's a bitch.
  • Instagram story caption over a screenshot showing someone who wronged the user facing misfortune: Just saying... payback's a bitch 💅

Response Patterns

  • Agreement (often with similar satisfaction): Damn right. / Serves them right. / Totally.
  • Discomfort/Disapproval: That's a bit harsh. / Let's not stoop to their level.
  • Acknowledgment: Yeah, I guess so.
  • Questioning: You really think so?

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

  • Someone might ask for more details about the original offense and the subsequent payback.
  • The speaker might elaborate on why they feel the retribution is justified.
  • The conversation could turn to the morality of revenge.

Conversation Starter

  • No. It's a reaction or comment on a situation involving revenge or retribution.

Intonation

  • Often said with a tone of grim satisfaction, vindication, or even malice.
  • Stress usually falls heavily on Payback's and bitch.
  • Example: PAYBACK'S a BITCH.

Generation Differences

  • Widely understood, particularly common from Gen X onwards. Might be considered crude by some older individuals.

Regional Variations

  • Common in American English, but understood and used elsewhere (UK, Aus, etc.).
You made your bed, now lie in it
🎲 Karma will get you