- To attract the most attention, praise, interest, or applause in a performance or event, often unexpectedly overshadowing the intended main focus or star.
Explanation
Origin
- Theatrical origin. In a play or performance (show), one actor might give such a compelling performance that they steal the audience's attention and admiration away from the lead actor(s) or the main plot.
- Extended metaphorically to any situation where one person or element becomes the unexpected center of attention.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- Stole the spotlight.
- Was the main attraction.
- Killed it / Crushed it / Nailed it (referring to their performance)
- Was the star.
- Upstaged everyone. (Can imply negative intent)
Vulgar/Emphatic (Expressing strong admiration for the performance):
- Fucking killed it and stole the whole damn show.
- Blew everyone else off the stage.
- Was the goddamn highlight.
Milder/Standard:
- Was the most impressive performer/element.
- Attracted the most attention and praise.
- Outshone the others.
- Was the standout performance.
Situational Appropriateness
- Suitable for most contexts, informal and semi-formal, especially when discussing performances, events, presentations, or even social gatherings.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- Learners might take steal literally if they don't understand the theatrical metaphor where attention/praise is the thing being stolen from others.
Examples
- The main actors were fine, but the comedian in the minor role completely stole the show.
- Everyone loved the bride's dress, but her adorable little nephew stole the show walking down the aisle.
- His presentation was good, but her insightful question during the Q&A really stole the show.
- The fireworks were amazing, but the surprise musical guest stole the show.
Dialogue
Person A: Did you enjoy the talent show last night?
Person B: Yeah, it was fun! That little girl who sang opera completely stole the show, though.
Person A: I know! Where did that voice come from? She was incredible!
Social Media Examples
- Tweet: Watched the debate last night. Candidate A was solid, but Candidate B's fiery closing statement completely stole the show. #Politics #Debate
- Instagram Caption (Photo of a dog at a wedding): Congrats to the happy couple! But let's be honest, Max the Golden Retriever stole the show. 🐾😂 #WeddingDog #BestBoy
- Facebook Post: Went to my kid's school concert. All the kids were great, but the tiny drummer in the back stole the show with his enthusiasm! #ProudParent #SchoolConcert
Response Patterns
- Totally agree! / Definitely!
- They really did!
- He/She/It was amazing!
- They were the best part!
- I couldn't take my eyes off them.
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
- Agree enthusiastically: You're so right! They were fantastic.
- Discuss what made them stand out: What was it about them? / Their energy was incredible.
- Compare them to the main focus: Yeah, the lead seemed boring after that.
Conversation Starter
- No. Describes a standout element within a past event or performance.
Intonation
- Usually said with admiration, amusement, or enthusiasm.
- Emphasis on stole and show.
- The puppy absolutely STOLE the SHOW!
Generation Differences
- Widely understood and used by all generations.
Regional Variations
- Common in all major English-speaking regions.