Explanation

  • To make an indirect suggestion or allusion; to imply something subtly without stating it directly.

Origin

  • Drop suggests letting something fall casually or gently into the conversation.
  • Hint means an indirect clue or suggestion.
  • The combination implies a subtle, low-key way of suggesting something. Used since at least the mid-19th century.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Put feelers out (Subtly test the waters or gauge interest)
  • Give a nudge (A gentle suggestion or reminder)
  • Send smoke signals (Humorous exaggeration for obvious hints)

Milder/Standard:

  • Suggest subtly
  • Imply
  • Allude to
  • Make an indirect reference to
  • Signal

Situational Appropriateness

  • Widely applicable in both informal and semi-formal situations.
  • Useful when directness might seem rude, demanding, or awkward (e.g., suggesting a gift, indicating boredom, wanting someone to leave).

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • The primary risk isn't misunderstanding the *phrase*, but the *hint itself*. Hints can easily be too subtle, missed entirely, or misinterpreted by the listener.

Examples

  • I wasn't sure if he wanted me to leave, but he kept dropping hints about how early he had to wake up.
  • She dropped a hint that she'd love to see that new exhibit.
  • Maybe drop a hint about needing help instead of complaining?

Dialogue

Person A: My birthday is next week!

Person B: Oh, cool! Any plans?

Person A: Not yet... but I did see this amazing little bookstore downtown that just opened... (Looks meaningfully at Person B)

Person B: Oh nice! Bookstores are great.

Person A (later, to a friend): I tried to drop a hint about wanting a book from that new store for my birthday, but I don't think they caught on.

Social Media Examples

  • Tweet: Husband keeps sighing dramatically while looking at the overflowing dishwasher... is he dropping a hint? 🤔 #MarriedLife #SubtleNudges
  • Instagram Story: Picture of a travel magazine open to a page about Paris, with text: Just gonna leave this here... maybe someone will drop a hint to Santa? 😉 #TravelDreams #Hints
  • Facebook Status: Anyone else's parents experts at dropping hints about wanting grandchildren?

Response Patterns

  • The phrase describes an action. The *reaction* is from the person receiving the hint (or failing to).
  • Someone hearing *about* the dropped hint might ask: Did they get it? / Did they take the hint? / What exactly did you say?

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

  • The person dropping the hint waits to see if the listener understands and reacts appropriately.
  • If the hint isn't taken, they might drop a stronger hint, give up, or become more direct.

Conversation Starter

  • No. It describes a *method* of communicating within a conversation.

Intonation

  • Emphasis often on DROP and HINT.
  • Just DROP a HINT and see if they notice.
  • Can be said slyly or conspiratorially.

Generation Differences

  • Common and understood across all generations.

Regional Variations

  • Common in all major English-speaking regions.
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