- To convince someone to change their opinion or agree with a viewpoint, especially when they were initially opposed or undecided.
Explanation
Origin
- Metaphorical. Suggests guiding someone from one position (facing one way) 'around' to a different position (facing another way – your viewpoint). Implies a change in perspective.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- Get them on board
- Flip their opinion
- Get them to see the light (can sound slightly arrogant)
Milder/Standard:
- Persuade
- Convince
- Change their perspective
- Influence their thinking
Situational Appropriateness
- Common in informal and semi-formal speech. Acceptable in many professional contexts, though persuade or convince might be used in very formal writing.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- Can potentially be confused with the less common meaning of bring someone around = help someone regain consciousness (e.g., The water on his face brought him around). Context almost always makes the intended meaning (persuasion) clear.
Examples
- He didn't want to go at first, but I managed to bring him around.
- We need to bring the committee around to supporting our proposal.
- Give her time; she'll eventually bring herself around. (Reflexive, meaning come to accept something internally)
Dialogue
Liam: Is your dad still against you taking the job abroad?
Chloe: He was, but I sat down with him, explained the benefits, showed him my plans... I think I'm starting to bring him around.
Liam: That's great! It's a fantastic opportunity.
Social Media Examples
- Post: My partner was skeptical about getting a cat, but after weeks of cute cat videos, I think I finally brought him around! 😻 #catlife #persuasion
- Forum question: Trying to bring my boss around to flexible working hours. Any advice on making the case? #worklifebalance #negotiation
- Comment: Don't give up! Sometimes it just takes the right argument to bring someone around.
Response Patterns
- Similar to win someone over. Often describes a past or ongoing process.
- Oh good! What changed his mind?
- How are you planning to bring them around?
- I hope you can bring her around.
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
- After stating success: How did you convince them? or What was the turning point?
- After stating intention: What's your argument? or What makes you think you can change their mind?
Conversation Starter
- No. Used when discussing efforts to change someone's opinion.
Intonation
- Stress usually on bring and around.
- We finally BROUGHT him AROUND.
Generation Differences
- Widely understood and used across generations.
Regional Variations
- Standard in major English-speaking regions.