Explanation

  • Secretly, discreetly, confidentially; without others knowing. 'QT' is an abbreviation of 'Quiet'.

Origin

  • Originated in the late 19th century. 'Q.T.' simply stands for 'Quiet'.
  • It became a popular, slightly coded slang term for secrecy or discretion.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • On the DL / On the down low (very common modern equivalent, AAVE origins)
  • Under wraps
  • Hush-hush
  • Low key / Keep it low key (can mean secret/discreet, but also understated/relaxed)
  • Off the radar

Milder/Standard:

  • Secretly
  • Privately
  • Discreetly
  • In confidence
  • Without publicity

Situational Appropriateness

  • Informal to semi-formal. Still widely understood, though it can have a slightly dated feel for some.
  • Appropriate when emphasizing secrecy or discretion.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Learners need to know that 'QT' stands for 'Quiet' and the phrase means 'secretly'. Without this knowledge, 'QT' is meaningless.

Examples

  • They organized the whole event on the QT.
  • He had to make the phone call on the QT so his boss wouldn't hear.
  • Let's keep this investigation on the QT for now.

Dialogue

Person A: I managed to get us tickets for the sold-out show.

Person B: No way! How?

Person A: A friend hooked me up, but it needs to be kept on the QT. Don't tell anyone we're going.

Person B: Understood. On the QT. Thanks!

Social Media Examples

  • (Less common in public posts due to its meaning, more likely in DMs or stylized contexts).
  • DM: Need to discuss something sensitive later can we chat on the QT?
  • Nostalgic/Stylized Tweet: Remember making plans on the QT before everyone tracked everything online? Simpler times.

Response Patterns

  • Agreement/Acknowledgement: Got it. On the QT. / Will do. / My lips are sealed.
  • Inquiry: Okay, but why on the QT?

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

  • Actions related to the secret matter are carried out discreetly.
  • People involved take care not to reveal the information or activity.
  • Decisions might be made to meet privately or communicate through secure channels.

Conversation Starter

  • No. Describes the manner (secretive) in which something is done or should be kept.

Intonation

  • Stress often on Q T.
  • Keep this on the Q T.
  • Can sound conspiratorial, secretive, or slightly old-fashioned/noir.

Generation Differences

  • Generally understood across generations, but might be perceived as slightly old-fashioned compared to the more contemporary on the DL (Down Low).

Regional Variations

  • Common in both American and British English.
Between you and me / Between you, me, and the lamppost