Explanation

  • To no longer be able to do something skillfully or successfully that you were previously known for being good at.

Origin

  • The origin is somewhat uncertain, but touch here likely refers to a special skill, knack, or talent, perhaps akin to having the Midas touch (ability to make money easily) or an artist's delicate touch.
  • Losing this touch means losing that special ability or connection that led to success.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Off one's game.
  • Not hitting the mark.
  • Washed up (Harsh, implies career/skill is over)

Vulgar/Emphatic:

  • Can't do shit right anymore. (Crude expression of declining ability)

Milder/Standard:

  • Your proficiency seems to have diminished.
  • You're not demonstrating the same level of skill.
  • There's been a decline in performance.

Situational Appropriateness

  • Appropriate in informal and semi-formal contexts.
  • Can be used in professional settings (e.g., sports commentary, performance reviews) but can sound critical, so tact is required. Saying it about oneself is usually fine.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Generally well-understood.
  • Non-native speakers should understand touch refers metaphorically to skill or knack, not physical contact.

Examples

  • The star quarterback seems to have lost his touch this season; his passes aren't accurate.
  • I used to be great at baking, but I think I've lost my touch – my last cake was a disaster.
  • He used to be able to charm anyone, but he seems to have lost his touch.

Dialogue

Coach: Miller, your shots have been off all week. What's going on?

Miller: I don't know, Coach. I feel like I've lost my touch. Nothing's going in.

Coach: Maybe you're overthinking it. Let's go back to basics in practice tomorrow. You haven't lost your touch; you just need to find your rhythm again.

Miller: Okay, Coach. Thanks.

Social Media Examples

  • Tweet: Am I imagining things, or has my favorite author lost their touch with this latest book? Didn't grip me like the others. #Books #Reading
  • Facebook Post: Tried to fix the leaky faucet myself like I used to... failed miserably. Guess I've lost my touch with DIY. plumbers #HomeRepair
  • Sports Forum Comment: Is it just me or has [Player Name] totally lost his touch? He's missing easy shots he'd normally sink.

Response Patterns

  • Maybe it's just a temporary slump.
  • Don't be so hard on yourself! (If said about oneself)
  • What makes you say that?
  • Yeah, I've noticed that too.
  • Everyone has off days/periods.

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After suggesting someone has lost their touch:

  • People might discuss the reasons for the decline in skill (age, lack of practice, change in circumstances).
  • They might offer encouragement or suggest ways to regain the skill.
  • They might debate whether the decline is real or just perceived.

Conversation Starter

  • No.
  • Usually a comment on observed performance or a self-assessment.

Intonation

  • Emphasis typically on lost and touch. He seems to have LOST his TOUCH.
  • Can be said with regret, criticism, or simple observation.

Generation Differences

  • Widely understood and used across all generations.

Regional Variations

  • Common in all major English-speaking regions.
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