Explanation

  • It is now your turn to take action, make a decision, or respond. The responsibility has shifted to you.

Origin

  • Comes from court sports like tennis or volleyball.
  • When the ball is in your side of the court, it is your responsibility to hit it back over the net to continue the game.
  • This concept of having the responsibility to act was transferred to general situations.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Your shout now (Aus/NZ Your turn, often for buying drinks, but can be broader)
  • Tag, you're it (Playful, like the children's game)
  • Over to you.

Milder/Formal:

  • The decision rests with you.
  • We await your response/action.
  • The next step needs to be taken by you.

Situational Appropriateness

  • Common in informal, semi-formal, and business contexts. It clearly signals a shift in responsibility.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Purely figurative. Must be understood as it's your responsibility to act next, not related to actual sports.

Examples

  • I've given them my final offer. Now the ball is in their court.
  • We've done everything we can; the ball is in your court now to make the next move.
  • Okay, I've explained the options. The ball's in your court.

Dialogue

Salesperson: So, that's our best proposal, including the discount and extended warranty.

Client: Thank you for laying it all out so clearly.

Salesperson: You're welcome. We've presented everything. Now, the ball is in your court. Let us know what you decide.

Client: Okay, I'll discuss it with my team and get back to you by the end of the week.

Social Media Examples

  • Email subject: Following Up: The Ball is in Your Court
  • Post: Sent off the manuscript to the publisher. Now, the ball is in their court. Fingers crossed! 🤞 #AmWriting #Publishing
  • Tweet: Made my argument, presented the evidence. The ball is in your court, @CompanySupport. Waiting for a resolution. #CustomerService

Response Patterns

  • Okay, I understand. I'll think about it/get back to you.
  • Right, let me see what I can do.
  • Understood. Give me some time to decide.
  • What happens if I don't act? (Seeking clarification on consequences)

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After being told the ball is in your court:

  • The person usually acknowledges the responsibility and indicates their next step (e.g., consideration, action, requesting time).
  • They might ask clarifying questions before acting (What's the deadline?).

After telling someone the ball is in their court:

  • The speaker typically waits for the other person's response or action. They might set a deadline (Let me know by Friday).

Conversation Starter

  • No. Concludes a phase of interaction and passes responsibility.

Intonation

  • Emphasis typically on ball and your court. The BALL is in YOUR COURT.
  • Often stated matter-of-factly, indicating a transfer of responsibility.

Generation Differences

  • Widely understood across generations.

Regional Variations

  • Common in all major English-speaking regions.
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