Explanation

  • Used to introduce a contrasting point or counter-argument after acknowledging or conceding something.
  • Similar to However or Nevertheless, but often follows a more detailed concession. It signals a pivot: Even though X is true, Y is also important/true.

Origin

  • A participial phrase functioning as a conjunction. That refers to what was just stated. Being said means having been stated.
  • Literally: With that having been stated...
  • It acknowledges the previous point before moving to a contrasting one.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • But still... (Common casual contrast)
  • Yeah, but...
  • At the same time tho... (Tho = though. Casual/online)

Milder/Standard:

  • Despite that...
  • Even so...

Situational Appropriateness

  • Appropriate in a wide range of contexts, from informal discussions to formal presentations and writing.
  • Very useful for presenting balanced arguments.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Ensure the listener understands it introduces a *contrast* or *qualification*, not necessarily a complete negation of the first point. It acknowledges complexity.

Examples

  • The hotel was quite expensive and the room was small. That being said, the location was perfect and the staff were wonderful.
  • It's true that learning guitar takes a lot of practice and dedication. That being said, it's incredibly rewarding once you start getting the hang of it.
  • I understand your concerns about the budget. That being said, I still believe this investment is crucial for our long-term growth.

Dialogue

Person A: This project timeline is extremely tight. I'm worried we won't meet the deadline.

Person B: I agree it's challenging. That being said, we have a very capable team, and if we focus, I think we can manage it.

Person A: Hmm, okay. Let's figure out a plan then.

Social Media Examples

  • Blog Post Review: The software has a steep learning curve, which can be frustrating. That being said, its powerful features make it worth the effort for professionals. #SoftwareReview
  • Tweet: Disappointed with the election results in my district. That being said, important to respect the democratic process and look ahead. #Politics

Response Patterns

  • Listeners anticipate a contrasting point or mitigating factor.
  • They understand that the speaker is qualifying the previous statement, not negating it entirely.
  • They prepare to hear the other side of the issue.

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

  • The speaker presents the contrasting point.
  • Listeners might weigh the two sides presented.
  • Follow-up could involve discussing which point is more significant or how to balance the two aspects.

Conversation Starter

  • No. It explicitly connects a new point to a preceding one, requiring context.

Intonation

  • Usually spoken with a clear pause before and after the phrase.
  • Stress often falls on That and said. THAT being SAID...
  • The tone signals a shift in perspective or argument.

Generation Differences

  • Used across most adult age groups, perhaps more common in thoughtful or formal discourse.

Regional Variations

  • Common in all major English-speaking regions.
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