Explanation

  • A declaration that an offer is final and no negotiation is possible. The other party must accept it as is or reject it entirely.

Origin

  • A straightforward expression indicating a final choice. Take it means accept the offer; leave it means reject the offer.
  • Its usage emphasizes the lack of flexibility and puts the decision entirely on the recipient. Common in sales, bargaining, or ultimatums.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Bottom line is [offer], yes or no?
  • That's the deal, end of story.

More Formal/Polite (but still firm):

  • Unfortunately, that's the best I can offer.
  • I'm afraid the terms are non-negotiable.
  • This is the final proposal.

Situational Appropriateness

  • Can be informal (bargaining at a market) or formal (business negotiation), but it's always direct and potentially confrontational.
  • Can be perceived as rude or inflexible if used too early or in situations where negotiation is expected. Use with caution.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • The meaning is quite literal, but learners should understand the implied finality and lack of room for discussion. It signals the end of negotiation.

Examples

  • My final offer for the car is $5,000, take it or leave it.
  • The job offer includes a specific salary. It's a take it or leave it situation.
  • Look, I'll give you $20 for the bike. Take it or leave it.

Dialogue

Buyer: I like the antique lamp, but your price is a bit high. Would you take $80?

Seller: The price is $100. That's my final price, take it or leave it.

Buyer: Hmm, okay. I really like it. I'll take it.

Seller: Great.

Social Media Examples

  • For Sale Post: Selling my old couch for $50. Price is firm, take it or leave it. Must pick up. #forsale #moving
  • Comment on negotiation thread: He should just tell them $10k, take it or leave it. Stop messing around.
  • Tweet: Job hunting is rough. Got an offer, but the salary is low, and they basically said take it or leave it. Ugh. #jobsearch #negotiation

Response Patterns

As the recipient:

  • Accepting: Okay, I'll take it. / Deal.
  • Rejecting: Then I'll have to leave it. / No thanks. / I can't accept that.
  • Attempting further negotiation (often futile): Are you sure you can't go any higher/lower?

As the speaker, after the recipient responds:

  • If accepted: Great. / Good. (Proceed with the transaction/agreement)
  • If rejected: Okay, suit yourself. / Alright then. (Transaction/agreement ends)

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After hearing Take it or leave it:

  • The recipient needs to decide whether to accept or reject the final offer.
  • They might take a moment to think.
  • They might walk away if rejecting.
  • They might confirm acceptance and finalize the deal.

After saying Take it or leave it:

  • Waiting for the other person's decision.
  • Standing firm on the offer.

Conversation Starter

  • No. It's a concluding statement in a negotiation or offer, not an opener.

Intonation

  • Often spoken firmly, with emphasis on take and leave.
  • Can sound blunt or even aggressive depending on the tone.
  • TAKE it or LEAVE it.

Generation Differences

  • Widely understood by all generations.

Regional Variations

  • Common in all English-speaking regions.
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