Explanation

  • An informal expression meaning I don't believe you or I'm not convinced by your explanation or story.
  • Implies skepticism and suspicion that something is untrue, insincere, or deceptive.

Origin

  • Metaphorical use of buying. Just as one wouldn't pay money for something worthless or fake, one won't buy (accept as true) a story or explanation they find unbelievable.
  • Likely emerged in American English in the 20th century.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Yeah, right. (Often sarcastic)
  • That's cap. (AAVE/Gen Z slang, meaning 'that's a lie') Origin: Possibly from capping meaning lying or exaggerating, popular online.
  • Sounds sus. (Suspicious)
  • I call BS. / I call bullshit.
  • Quit playin'. (AAVE, means stop pretending/lying)

Vulgar/Emphatic:

  • That's fucking bullshit.
  • Like hell you did/it is.
  • Don't piss on my leg and tell me it's raining. (Crude idiom for obvious deception)

Milder/Standard:

  • I find that hard to believe.
  • I'm not convinced.
  • I remain skeptical.
  • That explanation seems unlikely.

Situational Appropriateness

  • Informal.
  • Can sound quite direct and confrontational, implying you think the other person is lying or being deceptive.
  • Avoid in formal or professional settings where more diplomatic expressions of skepticism are preferred (e.g., I have some reservations, I'm not fully convinced).

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Non-native speakers might interpret buy literally (purchasing something).
  • The directness can be perceived as rude if the speaker isn't aware of its informal and confrontational nature.

Examples

  • He said he was late because of traffic, but the roads were clear. / Yeah, I'm not buying it.
  • She claims she didn't know about the plan. / I'm not buying it. She was definitely involved.
  • (Watching a politician's speech) His promises sound good, but I'm not buying it.

Dialogue

Leo: My dog ate my homework, I swear!

Teacher: I'm not buying it, Leo. That's the third time this month.

Leo: But it's true this time!

Friend 1: He apologized, said it was a misunderstanding.

Friend 2: I'm not buying it. Sounds like an excuse to me.

Social Media Examples

  • Reply to a dubious claim online: Nice story, but I'm not buying it. #FakeNews
  • Comment on a celebrity's public apology: I'm not buying it. Seems insincere.
  • Chat about a friend's excuse: He said he forgot? I'm not buying it lol.

Response Patterns

  • Why not?
  • What do you mean?
  • Seriously, it's true! (Defensiveness)
  • Okay, fine. (Giving up trying to convince)
  • Silence or changing the subject.

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After someone says I'm not buying it:

  • They might explain their reasons for skepticism (His story just doesn't add up.).
  • The person whose story is doubted might try harder to convince, get defensive, or drop the subject.

Conversation Starter

  • No. It's a reaction of disbelief to something someone has said.

Intonation

  • Often spoken with a skeptical, firm, or even dismissive tone.
  • Stress usually falls on buying. I'm not BUYING it.
  • Can have a flat or downward inflection, indicating finality in disbelief.

Generation Differences

  • Common across many generations, perhaps more so from Gen X onwards. Understood by most.

Regional Variations

  • Very common in American English.
  • Also used and understood in other English-speaking regions, though perhaps slightly less common than in the US.
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