- An informal expression meaning I don't believe you or I'm not convinced by your explanation or story.
- Implies skepticism and suspicion that something is untrue, insincere, or deceptive.
Explanation
Origin
- Metaphorical use of buying. Just as one wouldn't pay money for something worthless or fake, one won't buy (accept as true) a story or explanation they find unbelievable.
- Likely emerged in American English in the 20th century.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- Yeah, right. (Often sarcastic)
- That's cap. (AAVE/Gen Z slang, meaning 'that's a lie') Origin: Possibly from capping meaning lying or exaggerating, popular online.
- Sounds sus. (Suspicious)
- I call BS. / I call bullshit.
- Quit playin'. (AAVE, means stop pretending/lying)
Vulgar/Emphatic:
- That's fucking bullshit.
- Like hell you did/it is.
- Don't piss on my leg and tell me it's raining. (Crude idiom for obvious deception)
Milder/Standard:
- I find that hard to believe.
- I'm not convinced.
- I remain skeptical.
- That explanation seems unlikely.
Situational Appropriateness
- Informal.
- Can sound quite direct and confrontational, implying you think the other person is lying or being deceptive.
- Avoid in formal or professional settings where more diplomatic expressions of skepticism are preferred (e.g., I have some reservations, I'm not fully convinced).
Misunderstanding Warnings
- Non-native speakers might interpret buy literally (purchasing something).
- The directness can be perceived as rude if the speaker isn't aware of its informal and confrontational nature.
Examples
- He said he was late because of traffic, but the roads were clear. / Yeah, I'm not buying it.
- She claims she didn't know about the plan. / I'm not buying it. She was definitely involved.
- (Watching a politician's speech) His promises sound good, but I'm not buying it.
Dialogue
Leo: My dog ate my homework, I swear!
Teacher: I'm not buying it, Leo. That's the third time this month.
Leo: But it's true this time!
Friend 1: He apologized, said it was a misunderstanding.
Friend 2: I'm not buying it. Sounds like an excuse to me.
Social Media Examples
- Reply to a dubious claim online: Nice story, but I'm not buying it. #FakeNews
- Comment on a celebrity's public apology: I'm not buying it. Seems insincere.
- Chat about a friend's excuse: He said he forgot? I'm not buying it lol.
Response Patterns
- Why not?
- What do you mean?
- Seriously, it's true! (Defensiveness)
- Okay, fine. (Giving up trying to convince)
- Silence or changing the subject.
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
After someone says I'm not buying it:
- They might explain their reasons for skepticism (His story just doesn't add up.).
- The person whose story is doubted might try harder to convince, get defensive, or drop the subject.
Conversation Starter
- No. It's a reaction of disbelief to something someone has said.
Intonation
- Often spoken with a skeptical, firm, or even dismissive tone.
- Stress usually falls on buying. I'm not BUYING it.
- Can have a flat or downward inflection, indicating finality in disbelief.
Generation Differences
- Common across many generations, perhaps more so from Gen X onwards. Understood by most.
Regional Variations
- Very common in American English.
- Also used and understood in other English-speaking regions, though perhaps slightly less common than in the US.