Explanation

  • A warning advising someone not to take excessive risks or continue potentially risky behavior, especially after experiencing some initial success or good fortune.
  • It implies that their luck might run out if they continue.

Origin

  • Based on the concept of luck as a finite resource or a force that can be tested or strained (pushed).
  • Pushing too hard might lead to bad fortune or simply increase the statistical probability of failure. The expression has been common since at least the early 20th century.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Don't test it. / Don't try it.
  • Chill out. / Simmer down. (If the person is being overly bold/aggressive)
  • Know when to fold 'em. (Poker reference: know when to give up/stop)

Milder/Standard:

  • It might be wise to stop now.
  • You've been fortunate so far; perhaps don't risk it further.
  • I wouldn't advise taking further risks.

Vulgar/Emphatic: (Very harsh warning against perceived stupidity)

  • Don't be a fucking idiot.
  • Quit being greedy. (If the risk is driven by wanting more)

Situational Appropriateness

  • Informal to semi-formal.
  • Used as direct advice or warning against perceived recklessness, greed, or testing boundaries too far.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Generally clear in its meaning. The listener understands it as advice against continuing a potentially risky course of action.

Examples

  • You got away with speeding once, but don't push your luck.
  • She agreed to extend the deadline by a day. Don't ask for more; don't push your luck.
  • You've won five hands in a row at poker. Maybe you should quit while you're ahead; don't push your luck.

Dialogue

Leo: I found a loophole in the online game that gives me extra points! I'm going to keep exploiting it!

Mia: Be careful. The developers might catch on and ban your account. Don't push your luck.

Leo: Hmm, maybe you're right. It's probably not worth the risk.

Social Media Examples

  • Reply to someone bragging about narrowly avoiding trouble: Glad you got away with it this time, but don't push your luck! #becareful #risky
  • Comment on a gambling win story: Nice win! Cash out now, don't push your luck. #gambling #wisdom

Response Patterns

  • Okay, okay, I get it.
  • You're probably right.
  • Alright, I'll stop/be careful.
  • Sometimes defensively: I know what I'm doing! or It'll be fine!

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

  • The listener is expected to cease the risky behavior or moderate their actions.
  • The speaker might elaborate on the potential negative consequences if the warning isn't heeded.

Conversation Starter

  • No. It's a specific warning given in response to someone's actions or stated intentions that are perceived as overly risky or reliant on continued good fortune.

Intonation

  • Usually delivered with a warning or cautionary tone, sometimes firm.
  • Stress typically falls on push and luck.
  • Example: Don't push your luck.

Generation Differences

  • Common and understood across generations.

Regional Variations

  • Widely used in all major English-speaking regions.
Better safe than sorry