- British slang expressing extreme disappointment, sadness, or devastation about something.
Explanation
Origin
- Likely originates from the visceral image of being literally gutted (having one's internal organs removed), conveying a feeling of emptiness, shock, and deep upset.
- Became popular in the UK from the late 20th century, strongly associated with expressing disappointment about sports results, but now used more broadly.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- Bummed (US, milder)
- Choked (Aus/NZ, means very disappointed)
- Sick as a parrot (UK, often used for sports disappointment, slightly dated cliché)
Milder:
- Disappointed
- Upset
- Down
- A bit low
More Formal/Intense:
- Deeply saddened
- Distraught
Situational Appropriateness
- Informal.
- Suitable for expressing strong personal feelings among friends, family, or familiar colleagues.
- Might be perceived as overly dramatic or unprofessional in some formal business settings, depending on the context and relationship.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- The literal meaning of gutted (disembowelment) is very graphic. Non-native speakers unaware of the slang meaning might be shocked or confused by the intensity of the word if they interpret it literally. Context (expressing disappointment) is key.
Examples
- I was absolutely gutted when I found out I didn't get the job.
- She was gutted that the concert was cancelled.
- He missed the winning penalty. He must be gutted.
Dialogue
Friend 1: Did you hear back about your university application?
Friend 2: Yeah... I didn't get in. I'm absolutely gutted, it was my first choice.
Friend 1: Oh mate, I'm so sorry to hear that. That's really rubbish news. Let me know if you want to talk or grab a drink later.
Social Media Examples
- Tweet: Just found out my flight is cancelled. Absolutely gutted. Stuck at the airport now. 😠#travelnightmare
- FB Status: Gutted for the team, they played their hearts out but lost in the final minute. #football
- Instagram Caption: Was so looking forward to this holiday. Now I'm sick and can't go. Totally gutted. 😞
Response Patterns
- Expressing sympathy: Oh no, that's awful! / I'm so sorry. / What a nightmare. / That's rough.
- Asking for details (if appropriate): Oh dear, what happened?
- Offering comfort/support: That really sucks. Are you okay? / Poor you.
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
After someone says they're gutted:
- Offer sympathy and condolences.
- Ask if there's anything you can do.
- Perhaps share a similar experience to show empathy.
- Try to offer perspective or cheer them up (carefully, depending on the situation).
Conversation Starter
- No. It's an expression of feeling in response to a negative event or news.
Intonation
- Said with genuine disappointment or sadness.
- Strong stress on GUTTED, often preceded by an intensifier like absolutely or so.
- I was SO GUTTED.
Generation Differences
- Very common across most age groups in the UK and relevant regions, especially from teenagers up to middle age.
Regional Variations
- Primarily British English.
- Also very common in Ireland, Australia, and New Zealand.
- Less common in North America, although increasingly understood due to media. Americans would more likely use devastated, crushed, or bummed.