Explanation

  • A statement made with the understanding that it will not be publicly reported, quoted, or attributed to the speaker.
  • It allows someone to provide information or opinions candidly without being held publicly accountable.

Origin

  • Originates from journalism and public relations in the mid-20th century.
  • Establishes ground rules for conversations between sources (like politicians or officials) and journalists.
  • On the record means usable and attributable; off the record means the opposite.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Between us / Just between you and me
  • This stays here
  • On the QT (less common now)
  • Strictly confidential

Vulgar/Emphatic (Prefacing the statement, not the phrase itself):

  • Listen, don't you fucking repeat this, but...
  • Keep your goddamn mouth shut about what I'm about to tell you...

Milder/Standard:

  • Speaking confidentially...
  • Unofficially...
  • If I can speak freely...
  • This is not for publication.

Situational Appropriateness

  • Primarily used in journalism, politics, business, and legal contexts where attribution is important.
  • Can also be used informally between colleagues or friends to signal a sensitive or gossipy piece of information.
  • Using it implies a level of trust.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Critical warning: Non-native speakers *must* understand that this is a serious agreement not to repeat or attribute the information publicly. Breaking this trust can have severe consequences (loss of source, damaged reputation).
  • It doesn't just mean informal; it means specifically do not report this as coming from me.

Examples

  • Strictly off the record, I think this whole plan is going to fail.
  • The Senator agreed to speak, but only off the record.
  • Could we talk off the record for a moment? I have some concerns.

Dialogue

Journalist: What's the real reason for the delay in the project?

Source: Look, I can tell you, but it has to be off the record.

Journalist: Okay, agreed. Off the record.

Source: The lead engineer quit unexpectedly, and we're scrambling to replace them.

Social Media Examples

  • (Rarely used *on* public social media, as the platform *is* the record. More often discussed *about*).
  • Tweet: Just had an 'off the record' chat with an industry insider. Can't share specifics, but seems like major changes are brewing. #Insight
  • Blog Post: It's crucial for journalists to respect 'off the record' agreements to maintain trust with sources.
  • Forum Comment: Someone told me off the record that layoffs are coming. Take it with a grain of salt, though. (Don't quote me!)

Response Patterns

  • Okay, understood. / Got it. (Acknowledging the condition)
  • You have my word. / My lips are sealed. (Confirming agreement)
  • Okay, fire away. / Go ahead. (Inviting the speaker to continue)
  • Sometimes clarification: So, not for attribution at all?

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After agreeing to go off the record:

  • The listener pays close attention.
  • The listener might ask clarifying questions about the confidential info.
  • The listener carefully avoids repeating or attributing the information later.

The speaker might double-check: We're clear this is off the record, right?

    Conversation Starter

    • Yes. It can be used to initiate a confidential part of a conversation: Can we go off the record for a second?

    Intonation

    • Often said with a slightly lower volume or more serious tone to signal confidentiality.
    • Emphasis on off the record.
    • This is OFF THE RECORD, okay?

    Generation Differences

    • Widely understood, particularly by those who follow news or work in professional environments.

    Regional Variations

    • Common in all major English-speaking regions, especially where media and politics are actively discussed.
    Behind closed doors