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[1021] A nod is as good as a wink (to a blind horse)

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Explanation

  • A subtle signal or hint is sufficient for someone who is already aware or expecting it.
  • The addition (to a blind horse) is often humorous or ironic, implying either that the signal is obvious enough for anyone *except* someone completely oblivious, or conversely, that even a clear signal is useless if the recipient cannot perceive or understand it. The core meaning focuses on the sufficiency of a minimal cue for the *intended*, receptive audience.

Origin

  • The phrase likely stems from the idea that people who share an understanding or conspiracy need only the slightest gesture (a nod or a wink) to communicate.
  • These are non-verbal cues requiring minimal effort but conveying significant meaning between those 'in the know'.
  • The blind horse part is a later, folksy addition emphasizing the pointlessness of signals to those unable to receive them, adding a layer of colourful exaggeration.

Synonyms & Related Expressions

  • He got the message.
  • A word to the wise is sufficient.
  • I read you loud and clear. (More direct acknowledgement)
  • I caught your drift.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • He clocked it. (He noticed/understood)
  • I peeped that. (I saw/understood that subtle thing)
  • Got the hint.

Milder/Standard:

  • The message was understood.
  • A subtle hint was enough.

Situational Appropriateness

  • Generally informal to semi-formal.
  • The blind horse addition makes it more colloquial and informal.
  • Avoid in very formal settings.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Non-native speakers might be confused by the literal meaning or the blind horse part, not grasping the figurative sense of subtle communication.

Examples

  • I just glanced at the door, and he knew it was time to leave. A nod is as good as a wink, you know.
  • Do I need to spell it out? A nod is as good as a wink!
  • (Referring to a failed hint): Well, I tried to signal her, but I guess a nod is as good as a wink to a blind horse.

Dialogue

Sarah: Did you see Mark's face when the boss mentioned budget cuts?

Tom: Oh yeah. I just subtly shook my head at him later when he asked about his project funding.

Sarah: He understood?

Tom: Immediately. A nod is as good as a wink. He knows it's not looking good.

Social Media Examples

  • Tweet: Tried to subtly signal my friend across the room... apparently a nod ISN'T as good as a wink to a blind horse sometimes lol #awkward
  • Forum comment: Everyone complaining about the foreshadowing being too subtle come on, a nod is as good as a wink! It was obvious if you were paying attention. #moviereview

Response Patterns

  • Often met with agreement: Exactly., Too right., I know what you mean.
  • Sometimes a nod or wink in return, acknowledging the shared understanding.
  • If used as a mild rebuke (Do I need to spell it out?): Okay, okay, I get it.

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

  • The conversation usually moves on, as the expression signifies that understanding has been achieved or expected.
  • Someone might ask for clarification if they *didn't* understand the implied signal: Wait, what was the nod for?
  • The person giving the signal might proceed with the intended action.

Conversation Starter

  • No. Usually used mid-conversation to comment on successful (or failed) subtle communication.

Intonation

  • Generally spoken matter-of-factly.
  • Stress often falls on NOD, GOOD, and WINK.
  • If the blind horse part is added, it might be said with a slightly more drawn-out or wry tone, stressing BLIND HORSE.
  • Example: A NOD is as GOOD as a WINK.

Generation Differences

  • More common among older generations (40+), though understood by most. The blind horse part feels a bit dated.

Regional Variations

  • Used across English-speaking regions, perhaps slightly more common in the UK and Commonwealth countries.
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