- To agree with someone; to share the same opinion or perspective.
Explanation
Origin
- The image suggests two people looking directly at each other, implying alignment and mutual understanding.
- It has biblical origins (Isaiah 52:8: Thy watchmen shall lift up the voice; with the voice together shall they sing: for they shall see eye to eye, when the Lord shall bring again Zion.) meaning to see things the same way.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- Be on the same wavelength
- Vibe (with someone on an idea)
- Click (on a plan/idea)
- Be simpatico
- Get each other
Vulgar/Emphatic (usually for disagreement):
- We're on completely fucking different planets (about this).
- (For agreement, less common): Yeah, we're totally fucking aligned now.
Milder/Formal:
- Concur
- Be in accord
- Share the same perspective
- Hold congruent views
- Reach an understanding
Situational Appropriateness
- Suitable for both informal and formal contexts. A standard, widely understood idiom.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- Highly unlikely to be misunderstood. It's a very common and transparent idiom.
Examples
- My sister and I don't always see eye to eye on politics, but we respect each other.
- The board members finally saw eye to eye on the new strategy.
- It's important for partners to see eye to eye on major life decisions.
Dialogue
Manager A: Have you and Sarah resolved your differences on the project budget?
Manager B: Yes, we had a long meeting yesterday and now we see eye to eye. We've found a compromise.
Manager A: Excellent. I'm glad you could work it out.
Social Media Examples
- Post: So happy my co-founder and I see eye to eye on the company's future direction. Exciting times ahead! #startup #partnership
- Comment: It's okay if you and your friends don't always see eye to eye. Healthy debate is good! #friendship #perspectives
- Tweet: Do politicians ever see eye to eye on anything anymore? Seems unlikely. #politics #divided
Response Patterns
- Agreement/Confirmation: Yes, we're finally on the same page. / That's good to hear.
- Disagreement/Negation: No, we still don't see eye to eye on that issue.
- Surprise: Really? I thought you two disagreed fundamentally.
- Exploration: What helped you finally see eye to eye?
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
After agreement is stated (We see eye to eye):
- Great! So what's the next step?
- What points did you finally agree on?
After disagreement is stated (We don't see eye to eye):
- What are the main points of difference?
- Is there any room for compromise?
- How will you move forward then?
Conversation Starter
- No. Used to describe the state of agreement or disagreement between parties already known or discussed.
Intonation
- Usually fairly even stress, often slightly emphasizing EYE to EYE.
- Frequently used in the negative: We DON'T see eye to eye.
Generation Differences
- Used and understood by all generations.
Regional Variations
- Common across all major English-speaking regions.