Explanation

  • To agree with someone; to share the same opinion or perspective.

Origin

  • The image suggests two people looking directly at each other, implying alignment and mutual understanding.
  • It has biblical origins (Isaiah 52:8: Thy watchmen shall lift up the voice; with the voice together shall they sing: for they shall see eye to eye, when the Lord shall bring again Zion.) meaning to see things the same way.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Be on the same wavelength
  • Vibe (with someone on an idea)
  • Click (on a plan/idea)
  • Be simpatico
  • Get each other

Vulgar/Emphatic (usually for disagreement):

  • We're on completely fucking different planets (about this).
  • (For agreement, less common): Yeah, we're totally fucking aligned now.

Milder/Formal:

  • Concur
  • Be in accord
  • Share the same perspective
  • Hold congruent views
  • Reach an understanding

Situational Appropriateness

  • Suitable for both informal and formal contexts. A standard, widely understood idiom.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Highly unlikely to be misunderstood. It's a very common and transparent idiom.

Examples

  • My sister and I don't always see eye to eye on politics, but we respect each other.
  • The board members finally saw eye to eye on the new strategy.
  • It's important for partners to see eye to eye on major life decisions.

Dialogue

Manager A: Have you and Sarah resolved your differences on the project budget?

Manager B: Yes, we had a long meeting yesterday and now we see eye to eye. We've found a compromise.

Manager A: Excellent. I'm glad you could work it out.

Social Media Examples

  • Post: So happy my co-founder and I see eye to eye on the company's future direction. Exciting times ahead! #startup #partnership
  • Comment: It's okay if you and your friends don't always see eye to eye. Healthy debate is good! #friendship #perspectives
  • Tweet: Do politicians ever see eye to eye on anything anymore? Seems unlikely. #politics #divided

Response Patterns

  • Agreement/Confirmation: Yes, we're finally on the same page. / That's good to hear.
  • Disagreement/Negation: No, we still don't see eye to eye on that issue.
  • Surprise: Really? I thought you two disagreed fundamentally.
  • Exploration: What helped you finally see eye to eye?

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After agreement is stated (We see eye to eye):

  • Great! So what's the next step?
  • What points did you finally agree on?

After disagreement is stated (We don't see eye to eye):

  • What are the main points of difference?
  • Is there any room for compromise?
  • How will you move forward then?

Conversation Starter

  • No. Used to describe the state of agreement or disagreement between parties already known or discussed.

Intonation

  • Usually fairly even stress, often slightly emphasizing EYE to EYE.
  • Frequently used in the negative: We DON'T see eye to eye.

Generation Differences

  • Used and understood by all generations.

Regional Variations

  • Common across all major English-speaking regions.
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