Explanation

  • To be in a risky, dangerous, or precarious situation where one mistake could lead to serious trouble or disaster.
  • It can also refer to discussing a sensitive topic that could easily cause offense or problems.

Origin

  • Comes from the literal danger of skating on ice that is too thin to support one's weight.
  • If the ice breaks, the skater falls into the freezing water, a potentially disastrous outcome.
  • This clear image of risk translates well to figurative situations involving danger or potential negative consequences.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Be asking for trouble
  • Be pushing it
  • Be on thin fucking ice (Vulgar emphasis)
  • In deep shit (Already in trouble, vs. risking trouble)

Milder/Formal:

  • Engaging in risky behavior
  • In a precarious position
  • Taking an undue risk
  • Jeopardizing the situation

Situational Appropriateness

  • Suitable for informal and semi-formal contexts.
  • The imagery is strong and easily understood.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Entirely figurative; has nothing to do with actual ice skating. Focus on the element of risk and potential negative consequences.

Examples

  • Asking the boss for another day off when you've already taken so many is skating on thin ice.
  • By ignoring the warnings, he was skating on thin ice with his health.
  • Bringing up politics at that family dinner was really skating on thin ice.

Dialogue

Leo: I'm thinking of investing all my savings in this new cryptocurrency.

Mia: Wow, Leo, that sounds like skating on thin ice. It's so volatile.

Leo: You really think it's that risky? Everyone's talking about it.

Mia: Talk is cheap. Losing your savings isn't. Be careful.

Social Media Examples

  • Tweet: Skipping team meetings? You're skating on thin ice, my friend. #Workplace #CareerAdvice
  • Post: Trying to juggle freelance work and a full-time job feels like skating on thin ice constantly. #Burnout #HustleCulture
  • Comment: Mentioning his ex-wife's name? Definitely skating on thin ice there.

Response Patterns

  • You think so? I didn't realize it was that risky.
  • Yeah, I know, I need to be careful.
  • What do you think I should do instead?
  • Maybe you're right, I should back off.

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After warning someone they are skating on thin ice:

  • One might elaborate on the risks: If you get caught, you could be fired. or That topic really upsets her.

After someone realizes they are skating on thin ice:

  • They might ask for advice: How can I fix this? or take action to reduce the risk: Okay, I won't bring it up again.

Conversation Starter

  • No. It's a warning or description of a situation.

Intonation

  • Stress falls on skating and thin ice. SKATING on THIN ICE.
  • Often said with a tone of warning or concern.

Generation Differences

  • Widely understood across generations.

Regional Variations

  • Common in most English-speaking regions.
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