- To be in a risky, dangerous, or precarious situation where one mistake could lead to serious trouble or disaster.
- It can also refer to discussing a sensitive topic that could easily cause offense or problems.
Explanation
Origin
- Comes from the literal danger of skating on ice that is too thin to support one's weight.
- If the ice breaks, the skater falls into the freezing water, a potentially disastrous outcome.
- This clear image of risk translates well to figurative situations involving danger or potential negative consequences.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- Be asking for trouble
- Be pushing it
- Be on thin fucking ice (Vulgar emphasis)
- In deep shit (Already in trouble, vs. risking trouble)
Milder/Formal:
- Engaging in risky behavior
- In a precarious position
- Taking an undue risk
- Jeopardizing the situation
Situational Appropriateness
- Suitable for informal and semi-formal contexts.
- The imagery is strong and easily understood.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- Entirely figurative; has nothing to do with actual ice skating. Focus on the element of risk and potential negative consequences.
Examples
- Asking the boss for another day off when you've already taken so many is skating on thin ice.
- By ignoring the warnings, he was skating on thin ice with his health.
- Bringing up politics at that family dinner was really skating on thin ice.
Dialogue
Leo: I'm thinking of investing all my savings in this new cryptocurrency.
Mia: Wow, Leo, that sounds like skating on thin ice. It's so volatile.
Leo: You really think it's that risky? Everyone's talking about it.
Mia: Talk is cheap. Losing your savings isn't. Be careful.
Social Media Examples
- Tweet: Skipping team meetings? You're skating on thin ice, my friend. #Workplace #CareerAdvice
- Post: Trying to juggle freelance work and a full-time job feels like skating on thin ice constantly. #Burnout #HustleCulture
- Comment: Mentioning his ex-wife's name? Definitely skating on thin ice there.
Response Patterns
- You think so? I didn't realize it was that risky.
- Yeah, I know, I need to be careful.
- What do you think I should do instead?
- Maybe you're right, I should back off.
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
After warning someone they are skating on thin ice:
- One might elaborate on the risks: If you get caught, you could be fired. or That topic really upsets her.
After someone realizes they are skating on thin ice:
- They might ask for advice: How can I fix this? or take action to reduce the risk: Okay, I won't bring it up again.
Conversation Starter
- No. It's a warning or description of a situation.
Intonation
- Stress falls on skating and thin ice. SKATING on THIN ICE.
- Often said with a tone of warning or concern.
Generation Differences
- Widely understood across generations.
Regional Variations
- Common in most English-speaking regions.