- Used to introduce an unpleasant or unavoidable truth that the speaker believes needs to be acknowledged, even if it's difficult.
- Implies that people might be avoiding this truth, and it's time to be realistic.
Explanation
Origin
- Comes from the idiom to face something, meaning to confront or accept a difficult situation or reality directly.
- Let's invites the listener(s) to join the speaker in this act of acceptance.
Synonyms & Related Expressions
Alternatives
Slang/Informal:
- Real talk... (Introduces a blunt truth)
- Keep it real... (Advises honesty/realism, similar sentiment)
- It is what it is... (Expresses acceptance of an unpleasant reality, often follows the 'Let's face it' statement)
- Bottom line... (Focuses on the essential, often unpleasant, truth)
Vulgar/Emphatic:
- Let's face fucking facts... (Strong emphasis)
Milder/Standard:
- We have to acknowledge...
- Candidly speaking...
Situational Appropriateness
- Common in informal and semi-formal contexts.
- Use with caution in very formal settings or with sensitive topics, as it can sound blunt or pessimistic. Tone is crucial.
Misunderstanding Warnings
- Generally well understood. The main risk is using it insensitively about a topic the listener finds painful.
Examples
- We keep hoping the project will finish on time, but let's face it, we're already two weeks behind schedule.
- Let's face it, I'm not getting any younger.
- You can try dieting, but let's face it, you love cake too much. (Can be used humorously/teasingly)
Dialogue
Person A: I really thought I could run a marathon with just one month of training.
Person B: Let's face it, that was probably a bit too ambitious. Maybe aim for a 10k first?
Person A: Yeah... you're probably right. Sigh.
Social Media Examples
- Post: Dreaming of early retirement, but let's face it, with the current cost of living, I'll be working till I'm 80. 😩 #RealityCheck #Economy
- Comment: Let's face it, that plot twist made absolutely no sense. #MovieReview
Response Patterns
- Listeners might sigh, nod in reluctant agreement, or chuckle if the tone is humorous.
- May respond with Yeah, you're right, That's true, or sometimes try to argue against the point if they aren't ready to accept it.
Common Follow-up Questions/Actions
After stating the truth, the conversation might shift to:
- Discussing the implications of that truth (So what do we do now?).
- Expressing shared feelings about it (resignation, frustration).
- Trying to find solutions or ways to cope.
Conversation Starter
- No. Used mid-conversation when confronting a difficult aspect of the topic.
Intonation
- Often spoken with a tone of resignation or blunt realism.
- Stress usually falls on face. Let's FACE it...
- Can be followed by a brief pause before stating the unpleasant truth.
Generation Differences
- Used across most adult age groups.
Regional Variations
- Common in all major English-speaking regions.