Explanation

  • Used to introduce an unpleasant or unavoidable truth that the speaker believes needs to be acknowledged, even if it's difficult.
  • Implies that people might be avoiding this truth, and it's time to be realistic.

Origin

  • Comes from the idiom to face something, meaning to confront or accept a difficult situation or reality directly.
  • Let's invites the listener(s) to join the speaker in this act of acceptance.

Alternatives

Slang/Informal:

  • Real talk... (Introduces a blunt truth)
  • Keep it real... (Advises honesty/realism, similar sentiment)
  • It is what it is... (Expresses acceptance of an unpleasant reality, often follows the 'Let's face it' statement)
  • Bottom line... (Focuses on the essential, often unpleasant, truth)

Vulgar/Emphatic:

  • Let's face fucking facts... (Strong emphasis)

Milder/Standard:

  • We have to acknowledge...
  • Candidly speaking...

Situational Appropriateness

  • Common in informal and semi-formal contexts.
  • Use with caution in very formal settings or with sensitive topics, as it can sound blunt or pessimistic. Tone is crucial.

Misunderstanding Warnings

  • Generally well understood. The main risk is using it insensitively about a topic the listener finds painful.

Examples

  • We keep hoping the project will finish on time, but let's face it, we're already two weeks behind schedule.
  • Let's face it, I'm not getting any younger.
  • You can try dieting, but let's face it, you love cake too much. (Can be used humorously/teasingly)

Dialogue

Person A: I really thought I could run a marathon with just one month of training.

Person B: Let's face it, that was probably a bit too ambitious. Maybe aim for a 10k first?

Person A: Yeah... you're probably right. Sigh.

Social Media Examples

  • Post: Dreaming of early retirement, but let's face it, with the current cost of living, I'll be working till I'm 80. 😩 #RealityCheck #Economy
  • Comment: Let's face it, that plot twist made absolutely no sense. #MovieReview

Response Patterns

  • Listeners might sigh, nod in reluctant agreement, or chuckle if the tone is humorous.
  • May respond with Yeah, you're right, That's true, or sometimes try to argue against the point if they aren't ready to accept it.

Common Follow-up Questions/Actions

After stating the truth, the conversation might shift to:

  • Discussing the implications of that truth (So what do we do now?).
  • Expressing shared feelings about it (resignation, frustration).
  • Trying to find solutions or ways to cope.

Conversation Starter

  • No. Used mid-conversation when confronting a difficult aspect of the topic.

Intonation

  • Often spoken with a tone of resignation or blunt realism.
  • Stress usually falls on face. Let's FACE it...
  • Can be followed by a brief pause before stating the unpleasant truth.

Generation Differences

  • Used across most adult age groups.

Regional Variations

  • Common in all major English-speaking regions.
In any case.